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atheists: what would you do?
what would you do if you had to go to a christian open-casket funeral, and everyone was kneeling before the body? do you think its ok to just kneel there for a minute and move on? I have been doing that for years, out of respect, but im wondering if someone knows a better way
19 Answers
- ?Lv 78 years ago
Maybe it was a Catholic funeral vs. a Protestant funeral? I am a Presbyterian and went to a Catholic man's funeral. Other people were kneeling; I did not as it is not a tradition I am familiar with. However, it does not mean that they are Christians and I'm not, or vice versa.
Kneeling out of respect is fine. Or just saying kind words to the family without kneeling would be acceptable also.
- DaniLv 68 years ago
Weird, I've never heard of a Christian funeral with people kneeling before the casket. That's really weird, what denomination are they?
Anyway, I would probably kneel, too. I wouldn't mind doing it out of respect for the deceased and the family and friends they may have around. I wouldn't want to cause someone to be upset at me or something.
- VexedLv 68 years ago
I'd just do whatever everyone else was doing. Even though I don't believe in God, I would kneel at the casket. I mean, why potentially cause a problem at someone's funeral?
- ?Lv 78 years ago
I kneel in front of the casket but instead of praying i bring up good memories of the deceased.
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- ?Lv 68 years ago
I've been to plenty of Christian funerals and no one ever kneeled in front of the coffin.
- Why Hello?Lv 48 years ago
I would kneel out of respect for the dead, with no praying involved. Same as a traditional Buddhist funeral where I bowed to the Monks, it was out of respect for the dead, not the religion.
- 8 years ago
I kneel, remember, respect, but don't pray. I also go to church with my parents and brothers on Christmas Eve; but I remain in the pew and don't take communion.
- Anonymous8 years ago
I see no point in kneeling to a dead body. I would do it out of respect not belief however.
- Anonymous8 years ago
I would rather not if its a prayer ritual, are they kneeling for show or are they actually kneeling to pray?
If they admit to simply kneeling for show fine, but if they truly believed they wouldn't want me to pretend like I was praying when I wasn't...
- Mis Music☮Lv 58 years ago
My Aunty and her family are extremely religious, I am the opposite!
But when I go to her house, I join hands with them and shut up when they want to pray before dinner.
My answer is, I will do what ever is respectable or polite at the time, does not mean I will start believing.