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lucy asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 8 years ago

I feel like crap because of an argument with my mother and sister?

My mum gave my sister something I've been wanting for years. My sister doesn't let my mum go out and if she does go out my sister will scream and shout, she calls my mum a bitttch, she throws things off of her face, she orders her around. I thought it was so unfair because I always let my mum borrow my money, borrow my clothes, babysit my sister so she can go out. So anyway I was in my bedroom with my friends little brother and my sister comes into my bedroom and i said loudly get out and my sister said no, she then went and told my mum that I was shouting at the baby! I would never shout at a baby! So I pushed her out of the room with my foot and she attacked me grabbing my ear and nippong me making cuts on my ear and my

Mum slapped me across the head five times. I am not letting this go because I am tired of the way my sister acts and my mum just lets her do it! I now have to lie in bed because I don't want to see them today. I feel like crap..... What would you do?

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  • 8 years ago
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    First of all that is assault, in some cases you could have the right to call the police on her,

    Whether she is your mother or not, so talk to someone you trust about that, a teacher or somebody,

    You shouldn’t have to put up with that kind of abuse, it also sounds like your sister is also a victim

    Rather than a perpetrator, but she has given up trying to appease everyone and is now only interested in herself, women are usually quite smart at this stuff, in my opinion you should be acting more like her but without hurting anyone else if possible.

    Source(s): My own upbringing.
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I feel sorry for you, I had an upbringing like that..my sister could do no wrong and I am now 32 years old it has not changed..My 30 year old sister attacked me viciously in the street..she actually tried to kill me..it was unprovoked and my mum witnessed it, my sister was arrested and charged yet my mum has turned against me because my sister is being evicted from her house (due to her bad behaviour and because the house is close to mine)

    I left home at 16 because I was sick of it. I don't know how old you are but the best advice I can give is to keep your head down, Stay as far away from your sister as possible and don't argue with them..it's not worth it..If your mum is going to believe everything your sister says their is nothing you can do about it, just don't retaliate and be the bigger person. :-)

  • 8 years ago

    Sorry but your sister can be a *****. Confront your mum or write a letter to her if it's easier?sort it out with your mum first and then confront your sister,not by shouting just don't it calmly.

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