Survey: A few questions about marriage?

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1. How long have you been married to your current spouse?
2. How long did you date before you got married?
3. Did you live together before you got married and if yes how long?
4. Do you have children and did you get married before or after they were born?
5. Have you been married more than once? What about your spouse?
6. On a scale from 1-10 how happy are you with your marriage?
7. How often do you have sex and did you do it before you got married?
8. Why did you decide to get married?
9. Do you see yourself being married to your spouse until death do you part?
10. What do you think is/are the most important thing/s in making a marriage work?

kim h · Accepted Answer

1. I have been married for 20 years. 
2. It was 10 months from date to wedding. 
3. We lived together for a few months before marriage. 
4. I was divorced and had one child. We had two more after we married. 
5. This is his only marriage. 
6. 9
7. We have sex a few times a week. Yes we did it before marriage. We may do it more if we were together more. We work opposite shifts right now.
8. We wanted to be together forever.
9. Yes I see me married to him until death. That was the plan the first time too until he cheated continually. 
10. I think that communication, loyalty and having fun together are important. Having the same goals and wanting to work towards them together. It helps if you agree how to raise the kids, how to save and spend money and deal with the in laws.  And don't forget about the sex.

Anonymous · Answer

1. 6 months

2. 12 1/2 years

3. yes - 7 years

4. yes - Married after our daughter was born but married during my pregnancy with our twins. (bad timing to get pregnant lol)

5. Nope - only marriage for both of us

6. 10 - love of my life and best decision i ever made

7. 7-10 times a week, depends on how much time we get. Yes we had sex before marriage.

8. It was always on the cards just waited for the right time. because i loved him and wanted us to commit our lives together before the entire world.

9. Yes

10. sex, communication, working as a team, keeping the relationship with each other seperate from the relationship with the children, variety and spicing things up, honesty, security. Acknowledging when things are not working and fixing the path you have taken, accepting responsibility for your own actions and keeping a strong family bond on both sides of the family.

Poppet · Answer

1. 13 years
2.  4 months
3.  no
4.  no
5.  first marriage for both of us
6.  8
7.  2-3 times a week.  We did not have sex prior to marriage.
8.  We saw no reason to wait other than to make other people feel for comfortable with our choices.
9.  Yes, he is my life mate.  Divorce is only an option under extreme circumstances.
10.  Communication, compatibility, and compromise.

Maya · Answer

1. Five years
2. 1 Month
3. No
4. We have no children as of yet
5. first marriage for both of us
6. 100
7. I only knew my husband three days than I slept with him. I couldn't help it he was so sexy! We have a very, very sexual relationship 
8. The moment I saw my husband the world stopped and I knew right there he was going to be my husband and I was going to have his children.
9. 100% yes
10. Trust, Honestly, loyalty and most of all you need to have a sense of humor and to know how to make the other laugh!

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Survey: A few questions about marriage?

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