I know a man that acts like a woman on a chat program and he is married. He says he is not gay. What is wrong?

He's gay or bi. Bottom line is he IS cheating on his wife - no matter who's he's talking to. Matter of time before he crosses the line into an affair with a man or woman.

If this dude isnt trolling, despite him saying he isn't gay. his actions speak louder than words, he is bisexual. Don't worry, most men that habitually watch porn will be lead down the same road. These men will always have an unquenchable sexual thirst.

@Jay- but just bc attractive women get a ton of messages would still be no reason for a heterosexual man to pretend to be a woman to talk to men.

Well, he may not be gay but clearly he has some sexual interest in men. He's probably just really lonely and desperately horny and has come to the realization that attractive women get a TON of messages.

sexually curious?

could be transgender

People who are transgender feel like they're living inside a body that's all wrong for them.

Gender dysphoria

Gender identity disorder is a conflict between a person's physical gender and the gender he or she identifies as. For example, a person identified as a boy may actually feel and act like a girl. The person is very uncomfortable with the gender they were born.

He's probably a liar, which is secondary to his primary psychological defect, which would be homosexuality. This person needs psychological and pastoral counseling immediately and if he is sexually dysfunctional, his wife needs to know ASAP so that she can decide what she wants to do about it.