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need women to help a guy out.?

OK me and my ex been together for 3 yrs and we broke up like a month ago she came back 2wks later and left 11 days back she said she doesn't want a relationship at this time but still wants to talk as friends so today I asked her if she wants to be my gf again and she said no then I told her well I can't continue this no more since you don't care about me no more so I asked her to leave me alone and next time she contacts me its to come back for good. And she said go ahead and think I don't care and she left soo now by her saying that I fell like I made a wrong decision I don't want her to be the one that got away.

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  • 8 years ago

    if she can talk as friends, she doesn't care about you in a relationship way. But I think she truly cares of you as a person. She's not the one that got away you are. You obviously care a great deal about her and she's not being fair going back and forth. Unless you beat her or cheated or did something equally messed up to her she really has no reason not to care. You can only control you and nobody else. So my advice is stick to your guns. Keep yourself busy to not dwell on her and show yourself she is not the end all be all. If she sees that guy that she fell for in a good way she may find her way back to you. But if that doesn't happen you may find the one the one that got away by wasting your time with the wishy washy girl your hurting over now. Good luck to you hon.

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