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I am in love with a married man. I cant tell him how I feel that would be like coming on to him and he is marr?

I cant stop thinking about a married man and wishing I could be with him,.but I cant tell him how I feel because he is married and that would be like coming on to him. directly, I gotta think of some other way that way it will seem like it is his idea. any suggestions?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Don't. Stay away from him.

    This is not love. This is an unhealthy obsession, the temptation of the forbidden.

    You can't stop thinking about him because you have a mental disorder, a fixation that's out of your control. Seek medical help.

    He's married. He loves that woman, not you. She loves him, too. It doesn't matter how you feel about this. You don't belong there.

    Deep inside, you don't want anything good. Your heart is fueled by envy, because two people have found happiness and you haven't. You want that for yourself, but it doesn't belong to you. Because you haven't found the one for you.

    You're going there and destroy the life of two people, all for the sake of your stupid, selfish obsession. And when you discover how you stained yourself with this sin, when you realize your mistake, it'll be too late.

  • 8 years ago

    You are quite right. You cannot tell him how you feel at all. He said his vows with another woman and sleeps with her every night. He tells her that he loves her every day. If you really do love him then let him be with his choice of spouse in peace. It isn't you.

  • 8 years ago

    Leave him alone you homewrecker. Find a single guy like normal people do.

  • 8 years ago

    Leave him alone you homewrecker. Find a single guy like normal people do.

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  • Fred S
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Stay away.You are asking for trouble and you may end up destroing a marriage.

  • 8 years ago

    One sided love. It happens to human being. Just pray to the one God to forget him. You will see God will make u forget him.

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