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So this girl and I have been going out for a month and we are both 17. 2 days ago was our 1 month anniversary so I surprised her at her house with flowers, and she was very excited and happy. We had to walk around her neighborhood because her mom doesn't let her have boyfriends (Indian parents are strict) we went a little far and it was dark out so I decided to walk her home even though she told me not to because her mom was going to be waiting outside. I didn't want her to walk alone so I insisted on walking her close to home. Her mom was actually driving around looking for her so she saw us when we approached her house. Her mom threw away the flowers I got her, cried, called her dad to see what to do. (I wasn't there for all this). We texted and called a bit 2 days ago and decided we wanted to try even though it was going to be extremely hard to see her because her mom won't let her out unless she goes with her. I texted her goodmorning as I usually do yesterday and she didn't reply. I texted her at night she didn't reply. And she hasn't replied since. Is this all my fault? What can I do to make this better?
8 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
I am guessing this chick is thin right?
If you are into her
anyway stop being kind and nice
you already have the advantage because her parents hate you
now make sure you stop the flower crap and become a bad boy so she totally falls for u
- Anonymous8 years ago
Just wait for what happens. I must confess that you did the right thing walking her back since it was dark. It was the right thing to do. And the reaction er mom had was a natural thing. Can't blame her for that/ The question now is that is it worth sneaking around her folks and landing her in trouble with this relationship? If it is, then you have to just hold on. If she is equally serious, then she will eventually respond. For now, it is only wise that you stop texting her. wait for her response. If she doesn't respond and succumbs to her parents will, then I'm sorry. **** happens. Pull yourself together and move on. If she returns, congrats and all the best ahead.
P.S: I would control the late night strolls and stuff that may tick her parents off again. You might want to get to know them as a friend of hers and make them feel comfortable about you. That may help them feel at ease. You never know
Hope this helped.
Source(s): Own Experience - Dave10Lv 48 years ago
You need to be more mature with the situation, I'm not sure why people nowadays insist on having '1 month' or '2 months anniversaries', just stick to the 1 year so that it does not become boring or 1 big cliche'. You Will need to be a nice guy around her parents to show that you are caring enough for their daughter (which you should in fact be!)...but do keep in touch with the girl whatever the case may be, and I'm sure her parents will come around sometime or the other.
- 8 years ago
Well, no it's not your fault but i guess in the eyes of her parents it looks bad especially if they are as strict as hers. I think you should give her space, she must be going through a lot right now, her parents must be yelling at her 24/7 so it's very brave of her to still want to work it out with you even though her mum is against it. I think the best and wisest thing you can do is to give her space, cos it shows you respect her family and her decisions. No parents wants her daughter to be with a guy that is pushy and impatient, so try to be patient and let her come around when she is ready. Try to imagine from her point of view what she could be going through, I don't think she would really want to talk to anybody right now. Things will work out for the best in the end.
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- 8 years ago
Maybe try talking to her parents, explain and apologise for keeping her out late and it won't happen again. It doesn't sound fair she should be able to have a bit of a social life and she obviously likes you but she is finding it hard to be with you. I think the only thing you can do is to try talking tol eher parents and her. Apologise and wait to see what happens. They might have took her phone away or she has been forbidden to speak to you. Just be patient if you really like her. Hope I helped. :)
- Anonymous8 years ago
Wow , really them mom had no right to throw the flowers away , if she wasn't so strict , and let her daughter date . The mom and dad need to lossen up its 2014 teenagers are dating , my mom is recasting a guy se liked . If you are really like her did you ever talk to her mom and tell her how you feel about there daughter .
If the father is the one who as the strict rules , did he have these strict rules when he was a kid. These world is changing . Indian parents I understand you want to save your child from a heartbreak . But let them choose who they want to love , all of these parents picking husbands and wife's for there children , that's why the backfire .
Let them choose who they want to be with . The more you restrict them the more they well rebel. Mom stop guarding your daughter from heart break how else are they going to learn how to fall in love. Ooh and when you daughter gets flowers and a card don't throw them away you made your daughter cry if you . Shame on you
Source(s): Me - KymLBLv 58 years ago
Confused, her mom took her phone. Stop texting her. You should have walked a distance from her when walking her back home. It's now up to her whether she will defy her parents to see you.
- 8 years ago
Only you can decide what to do. Is she worth the trouble. Next year she will be 18. Will she break away from family to be with you? I would just move on if I were you.