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Should I try to talk to her?

Hi :)

Theres this girl i really like, im british she's german. I have only spoke to her twice quickly in person but i had a big conversation on facebook with her on facebook and it turns out we like similar music (rock). We exchanged a few youtube links etc and spoke about Germany and Britain, Launguages, Berlin etc. Her English is very good and i have been learning german for 5 years so i know a fair bit.

Anyway yeah i really like her and whenever we are near each other in college i always feel this awkward tension between us idk if its just me coz i like her alot. I can never seem to man up and go and talk to her though haha. I always feel as if I should but I always think is she thinking 'oh great its this guy again' or does she want me to? I could just casually ask for some german help next time she is alone but again i dont know. Its not the actual talking to her that im worried about, its just walking over and saying 'hi' or 'mind if i join you' etc its sooo awkward :( What should I do?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Honestly, go up to her and say 'Hey.' Haaha, sounds silly but I have had relationships before where I have talked to friends on facebook and really liked them and then it has been really awkward at school :P You might rregret it if you don't say hi. Everyone likes a confident guy who isn't afraid to meet new people. Go for it! :D Take a deep breath and go for it!!! :)

  • 8 years ago

    Well you have something valuable..... Facebook :) if you feel uncomfortable by aproaching her in person then send her a message and tell her if you guys could hang out during college or after . Another awesome thing is that you know what type of music she likes. You can invite her to a concert or go to your house to listen or watch youtube videos. I'm sure this can give you more less akward feeling and both can have a good time :) try it good luck and dont get nervouse just be yourself :)

    Source(s): Me
  • 8 years ago

    Yessss what are you waiting for :))

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Dooooo it! :)

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