For the married women out there..Please answer?

Oh no... emotionally cheating.

He's telling another women the shitty things he sees in his own wife plus makes up some more **** on top of it too... What a doll... Chucky, maybe...

Your friend is caught in something so deep. I feel bad for her.

Her protector has dropped her flat and he's letting another woman know, perhaps comment or might even be encouraging him. "She" has become his confidant and perhaps more.

I had neighbors that divorced. That f'n guy was over here quicker than anything. "Tried" to start telling me unkind things about his not yet ex-wife. I stopped it after his first negative sentence. I said, "Look, I don't want, nor need to hear that. "So n so" seems like an ok person. I don't wanna know that stuff." He looked at me weird, I think it was because I didn't say,"Omg that witch! Come her you poor baby and give me a kiss!"

I really think what he was looking for was sympathy and a warm spot...

Sounds like "Chuck's" looking for the same thing or a way out of the marriage.

I would be very hurt if I found out my husband was saying mean things about me to anyone else. One of the things that's so dear about being married is that you have someone else in the world who absolutely has your back. That means he doesn't badmouth you-EVER (among other things).

If I overheard it or found out about from someone I believed, I'd bring it up to him right away. I would let him know how much it hurt and why it hurt me. I'd never let something like that go by without addressing it...and it would probably take me some time to get over.

Yes, I would be upset. One of my marriage vows was to honor, and that is not honoring.

If my husband were doing this, I would think he was interested in the women to whom he was bad mouthing me....trying to score "my wife does not understand me" points. Well, I'd have to let him know that it was unacceptable. What I did after that would depend on his reaction.

I would leave because I want to be married to a man... not a little boy. A REAL MAN would not do the things you mentioned.

Sorry I'm a male but that's not right

I would want to know.I would want to be told.

my husband would not do that...but if he did i'd be crushed..

nope