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I feel like my friend has betrayed me in a way. I need some advice please.?
I feel like one of my closest friends is betraying me in a way. I ask her if she wants to hang out and she's always "busy" but then I find out that she is always hanging out with this one girl (who I think is really annoying but she doesn't know that). We hang out at school all the time, and sometimes I feel like I'm her "backup" in case no one else is there for her. Over the summer we didn't hang out AT ALL and she hung out with that girl whenever she got the chance to hang out with her. Now its christmas break and the same exact thing is happening! She's hanging out with that girl almost everyday! I have stopped texting her for a few days to see if she'll actually come to me for once. Please I need some advice on what to do in this situation, should I tell her how I feel?
5 Answers
- 7 years ago
Hi, I think you should tell her how you feel, otherwise she may never know how you feel and continue to do what she is doing. This is a hard situation that I went through with my once best friend last year. I couldn't tell her that she can't hang out with this one girl, or that I don't want her too. I was always there for her and when that one girl wasn't at school then she came to me, which I believe is very unfair. You should gently tell her you feel as though you're not as close, possibly encouraging her to put more effort into your friendship since loyalty goes both ways.. For me over the course of one year, we drifted as friends and I began to hang out with a different group of people I already knew. It was painful year but I have gotten closer to a small group of wonderful people that I wouldn't have known well if I had been still been hanging out with my once best friend that I was clinging to. If she continues to treat you the way she is, you should consider hanging out with people who return your loyalty that you give. I hope this helps and this situation works out for you!
- 7 years ago
Im sorry but that isn't a close friend maybe you can find someone else, treat her like she treats you see how she likes it. Value yourself and dont be a backup option but be what you are!
Try and find someone else that will value you and that will never make you a backup
Hope I Helped
- Under SiegeLv 77 years ago
People spend their time where they want to. If someone doesn't value time spent with you, you're better off going elsewhere for friendship. I know that sounds kind of harsh- but if a person doesn't appreciate you, don't waste your own precious time trying to get them to wisen up. You'll find a friend who DOES appreciate you, and will do so automatically, because they're a true friend to you.
- Anonymous7 years ago
You should tell your friend how you feel and if that doesnt work find new friend and make her jealous and betray her. If you dont find new friends go to a new school and there might be some there. good luck(:
- 7 years ago
First tell her how you feel. If she declines and says that she's been spending time with you too then she's not your real friends. If she was your real friend she would spend time with you and not ditch you for someone else, that's just cruel. Anyway, i hope i helped.