My Husband would rather look @ porn & jerk off than have sex with me...WTF??!!!?

I think it is time for you two to have a serious talk. Tell him that you want sex, tell him that you know he jerks off in the bathroom every morning. I think this is more about laziness than the actual porn. It really doesn't matter if you have gained weight. You are still a woman and a vagina is better than your hand. Take it from a woman who has gained 30 pounds and still has a very healthy sex life (my husband gained too actually). Something is wrong with him, not you.

I have seen similar question/situation in here way too many times, which tells you that you are not the only one and that it's happening to a lot of people. Pornography and masturbation are very addictive things. I have seen marriages broke apart because of one of them. As a man, I can tell you, that we all do it, whether you see us or not. I am sure the ladies do the same thing. However, when this becomes a replacement for your partner, that's when it turn into a serious problem that needs to be dealt with. Can I ask you why is it ok for you to let him watch porn in the first place? you are not helping at all, at least when he knows you don't approve of this, he will have hard time doing it as he pleased and therefore may make him want to see a naked women and touch her. I would suggest that you find a porn movie for you (with big D's) and very good looking men and start masturbating to that and when he ask, tell him it help you last longer. See how he likes that.

You and your husband need to talk. Sit down with him when the kids are away one day and let him know. The porn has very little to do with the problem, but if he is spending that much time with it instead of you, then he needs to wake up and realize, sooner or later, someone else may give you what you want instead of him. I am not here to be rude or blunt with you about your weight. I am only asking and advicing that you talk with your husband. And if he can't satisfy you the way you are hoping for, then seek some marriage assistanting or in this case, take up a hobby and pay him no mind. I will pray that all goes well for you.

He needs to accept the fact that haivng children can weigh on the way a woman looks and since you're making an effort to lose all that weight, he should be reminded by you on how you're attempting to be attractive to him again. And it wouldn't hurt maybe if you take an alum douche to shrink your vagina muscles back to feeling almost virgin again and let him know you're going to feel a lot better inside when he does have sex with you. You can do tha alum douche as often as you like to keep nice and tight for him.

I know of some men that stopped having sex (like 10+ years later) after their wives went through pregnancy...

Realistically you mention a few things...you are constantly turned down because you - were pregnant; he's too tired; he's too drunk. It sounds like there are a multitude of issues there and marital therapy would be a good place to start.

You need to sit him down and tell him that you won't be allowing him to watch porn and deny you of sex. He is supposed to love you regardless of how much weight you have gained. Porn will only lead him into cheating. You need something major to happen for him to take you seriously. Tell him you need space and will stay with your mum or someone for a while until he makes up his mind on what he wants or how he will make things better.

Look, I know you have three kids, and that sh!t tears your body up. But you've let yourself go. And you are trying to blame the porn. Hit the gym, fatty. I am serious. That is your only problem and it is one that is easily fixed. Well, you might have another problem if he is drinking too much. You don't say how often he drinks but if he often uses that as an excuse, I'm guessing he drinks a lot. That should be addressed as well. But don't drag porn into this. It is not the cause of this problem. It is an effect.

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He is being very selfish and self centered. He needs to grow up and stop beating off to porn and pay attention to you.

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