I just need to understand?

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Thank you for those who supported me and answered my other question :-)

I have another question

WHY would someone post on Facebook ( my daughters friend ) the following ;

''What an amazing start to 2014 , my 2 boys and engaged to the man of my dreams!''

.........When the guy beats her black and blue???

Often , and continually - I mean would you REALLY describe him as the ''man of your dreams''

Is it that she ENJOYS being beaten and gets off on it? ( serious question! ) Please do not be offended , she is in the sex industry and gets off on kinky rough sex

Or is she just DELUSIONAL to his faults and blinded by 'love'

Or is it just that she wants to PAINT A PICTURE TO THE WORLD of everything being pretty and wonderful in her life when it actually SUCKS

And WHY would she agree to marry a guy who beats her???

Sorry , it gets confusing , as I have had some 'failed' relationships myself with guys who are knob heads but even when I was with them I would never describe them as the man of my dreams or agree to marry them because I KNEW WHAT THEY WERE LIKE , obviously , it was staring me in the face! I was in a relationship with them , but do people want to paint a picture of everything being perfect when it's not even though those around them know it's not? xx

Jean C · Answer

I think you have answered your own question :).  The probability is she wants the world to believe she has the perfect man when she and her friends and family know the truth. People are strange I think they believe that if they say something out loud (on FB) then it has to be true.  She knows he isn't the perfect man. Hopefully she will come to her senses and ditch him but it's unlikely as a lot of women seem to think its better to be in a bad relationship than to live alone. The sad thing about it is, they are alone.  X

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