Need help in a relationship anybody thinks mature enough can answer?

My best advice would be to seeking counseling. What you have been through is traumatic and you need professional help moving on. It will take time.

Additionally, your last relationship you were madly in love. You probably spent all your time together and knew each other very well. That is a great thing, but it doesn't happen immediately. You haven't found someone that really interests you yet. Or if you have found someone that interests you, you're expecting the beginning of this relationship to be like the normal of your last relationship. That isn't realistic. Those things take time to develop and you aren't giving them time. That doesn't mean stick around when you know it's not going anywhere. But give it time to grow before you dismiss it.

But seriously- the best thing you can do is seek grief counseling.

Omg i am sorry to hear that. That almost made me cry. Well first off i would just go out and have a bit of fun. I tend to pay more attention to the guy who seems to be having a good time whithout being to crazy. Try and not prowl the bars looking. Kind of potrays as a creeper. If ya see a cute girl in the grocery store or standing in line sat hi and spark up a little convo like this line is goin really slow today. Ask a girl if she wants to join ya for a coffee. And if your out with the boyz and see someone you may like give her your number and let her make the choice to get a hold of u. Other then that just be yourself. Hope this help:)

I am sorry for your loss. I suffer from clinical depression and post traumatic stress so I can empathize your situation. I did seek professional help and I do much better these days. I will try to pass along to you the things I learned that helped me. Ask yourself "did she love me enough to let me go"? I believe that with the love you say you two had, she would want you to move on. I suggest you write a letter to her and pour out your heart. Tell her everything you feel. Then visit her place of rest and read it to her. After that burn the letter. Don't compare other girls to her.

Tell yourself that this is the door closing on the past. Now live for the day, each and every day to find joy again.

Hi Rockstar,

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Meghan is right. I hope in time u feel love again. <3