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I don't understand people! Should I text and ask?

So, Friday I started chatting to a guy on an online dating site (I used to see him on my lunch break alot). We met up Sat night, chatting for a fews hours and he seemed really nice. Sunday night he replied to a text I had sent earlier that day saying he was bored 7 had a crap day. He ended up coming over to mine, we watched some tele, had a cuddle and feel asleep. He ended up leaving about 12ish.

So I text him Monday morning, just said thanks for coming over etc.. no reply.

I text him Monday night just asked if he fancied doing something one eve in the week.. no reply.

Tues nothing.

Weds I text just saying, hope your okay and I didn't do/say something up annoy you.. No reply.

His since viewed my profile on another dating site etc but nothing :/ I'm not sure why but its really bugged me as he seemed lovely. Do I forget or do I send one more text and if so, what do I say?!

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  • 7 years ago

    I wouldn't bother texting him again... At this point he knows you're interested and any other attempt to contact him will come off as desperate and needy. If he was really a nice guy he would've at least responded telling you what's up.

    Sounds like you're not missing much, I suggest moving on.

  • 7 years ago

    I think you've texted enough honey. Third times the chram right? With no response, I'd say he lost interest. Never keep texing a guy if he's made it obvious that he's not interested, you'll only embarrass yourself. Just let him be and find another guy.

    Source(s): Experience
  • 7 years ago

    Sorry, but I think you should just forget him. He is not worth it. Hes being really rude. You deserve better. Am not sure if you should even reply if he does bother to text you now - and it would have to be a belter of an excuse for you to forgive his rudeness. You should focus your energies elsewhere, on someone who deserve you.

  • 7 years ago

    send one more text, his phone might of been damaged, as for the viewing your profile but not messaging you is really odd, seemed like a good guy, keep trying but dont make it sound or feel like your being to clingy :)

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