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would you stay with some one that has a std.?

we been dating 5 months now and he just found out his ex wife gave him a std she was cheating on him why he kicked her out and got a divorce. I love him and care a lot about him but am upset I don't want a std no we have not done anything. we have done some things but not all the way. should I stay with him or let him go. he likes and loves me but dose not want to put me at risk. I know sex is one way and the tollie tseat what are other ways tell the truth please if I stay with him want to be as safe and careful as can be not to get it at all. 10 points for the truth and best answer he said he have it until the day he dies said no meds.

Update:

he has warts on him that is the kind he has.

Update 2:

they told him it is not that bad but he have it forever they told him he could kiss on lips would be ok but no sex.

Update 3:

don't know if he has to go back or not they said he have this the rest of his life did not give him meds said kissing was ok but no sex at all ever so he said the doc told him I think he has genital warts I think it is on the head and the shift of his dic* I am going by what he tells me that the doc said I am scared I may get it and don't want it but cant loss him we been dating 5 months now I care about him and fall for him and love him. I just don't know what to do other then no sex of anykid at all but still scared I may get it if not careful and it just scares me. trying to find out what I can on how to be safe and careful.

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  • George
    Lv 4
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Unfortunately STD's are very common, and the virus that causes warts particularly so. Most people who are infected with this virus (HPV) recover from the infection and most young women are now vaccinated against the common ones. Have either you or him received the HPV vaccine? I'm a bit confused by his treatment and the advice he got, if he had warts, did they treat them? and how long did they say for him not to have sex? It shouldn't be a life long ban. Is he going back for a follow up? Its unlikely that its possible to catch this without having sex & you don't get it from toilet seats.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    If it's cure able then sure, just don't do anything till its cured. Or even if it's manageable and not infectious because if you stay with him and you catch the std then it will affect your life. I know I would definitely not stay with him, it's harsh but it's the honest truth. Some stds prevent you from having birth, some even get passed onto your child. So, if it can be cured - stay with him. If it cannot - don't stay with him. Sorry for the bad news xx

  • 7 years ago

    stay with him unril he gets clean/cured

  • Werbie
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    No

    :P

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