How to make a good impression on a girl in first meeting?

There are many excellent ways to make a good first impression on a girl.

It sounds like you were waiting for her to choose the topic. The best topic is whatever YOU want to talk about. Whatever interests you is fine. If you always only talk about what you think she will be interested in, it will seem like you lack your own opinions and personality. That doesn't leave a good first impression.

And your friend is correct that you should be a good listener. However don't misunderstand what being a good listener means. Being a good listener doesn't mean waiting patiently for the other person to keep talking and talking, and constantly choosing the next topic while you are merely a passive observer of her expressing herself.

Being a good listener means you pay attention to what the other person is saying. You can still control the topic of the conversation and be an excellent listener. In fact, that is exactly what you should do to make a great first impression!

You can choose a topic, say something interesting, ask a question, and listening to her response means relating the value she just gave you to yourself. For example, if a girl tells me she likes baking, I'll tell her, that reminds me that I used to work in a bakery but i was worried about getting fat because i always ate the extra dough-nuts there. However If i wasn't listening when she said she likes baking, then I would just suddenly change the topic. Or first pretend i was listening by saying, "oh that's nice." and then changing the subject.

If she says something that really bores you, then of course you can change the subject, but it's good to playfully tease her or at least acknowledge you are listening by connecting her statements to relevant connections to you and your life.

Be positive and remind yourself that she wants to talk to you and anything that interests you should interest her too.

Many guys complain that women can be hard to impress. But the key is not trying to find the right way to impress; it's making the right impression in the first place.

Compliment her, but don't over do it. Think of something positive you can say...and actually mean it! Don't tell her 'I really like your shoes' if she's wearing beat up sneakers! Complimenting her clothes or looks is not a bad idea, but it runs the risk of being predictable. Try to be original, and, if it comes naturally to you, humorous. Don't force it though if you're not a naturally funny guy!

Respect her. Girls hate it when you don't and its a MAJOR turn off. Give her space, don't put her down and keep your hand to your self. If you don't give the girl her needed space she may get angry at you and start an argument which may lead to a break-up.

Take it slow. Don't automatically flirt, get suggestive, or change the tone of the conversation the minute she thanks you for a compliment or laughs at your jokes. Lots of people can be a bit shy, so if she seems this way don't try to force things. Shy people don't usually dislike other people, they just need a little bit more time and space to get to know you. Watch closely for signs that you may have stepped too far into her 'comfort zone'!

Find out what she's interested in (but seriously, not like a stalker)

People like it when someone is sincerely interested in what they think and say. But if you're not interested don't try to fake it. Listening and encouraging a woman to talk about things that interest her will not only help you to keep the conversation going two ways but will help you figure out if she shares any of your interests in the first place, and might even help you think of an enjoyable activity you could share if you decide to ask her out.

If you really like a woman and you think she likes you as well, go ahead and ask her out but remember, if she says no it's not the end of the world!

If she says yes try to think of something unique and creative to do, but try to make it something that's in public, preferably during the day or on a weekend. We live in a world full of weirdos and she doesn't have any reason to think you're not one of them! Besides, late night dinners carry with them a lot of baggage and unwanted expectations for a lot of people, so it's best to wait until further down the road for that!

Really, just be yourself.

Don't brag, girls hate that. You don't want to make her think you're a self-centered jerk.

It's good to agree with her on things, but if every time she asks your opinion on something you just nod or say "sure", she will either not think you're listening or that you don't care, which you might not, but you don't want to give her that impression. Don't just tell her you agree, tell her why you agree, she will most likely appreciate your response and will know you're listening to her.

Just ask about her. Talk to her like a friend.. normal talks you know (excluding guy stuff like cars, bikes, sports, sex, and GIRLS).

If she likes you, she'll try her best to sustain the conversation.

Don't think a lot bt keep respect

try to be yourself man simple and more powerfull