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How to resist texting my gf so much so i wont come off as clingy?

im a guy btw and she does care for me and we are planning a date this Saturday and i dont annoy her im sure of it but its like i have to text her like once every couple hours or so until she txts back and im trying my best to wait until she does coz she said she'll txt me when she has service when she makes it to bozeman, which she told me at 10 am and its an hour away from where she lives and i waited until 5 pm then i texted her and she immediately responds like i dont want her to think im clingy or nothing i just need help resisting that and waiting for her to text back thats all

Update:

i get what youre saying Amz

Update 2:

agreeing with John also

Update 3:

Sayyidity: we usually have some sort of conversation everyday at some sort of length but i have to text first most of the time and we both really like each other so yeah probably

Update 4:

Ashley: we greatly care about each other but thanks for the advice

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Go do something else. Texting someone too much might drive them away. Let the mystery of "wonder what they are doing right now" just....be. This way you have more to talk about on the date! If you're in constant communication with someone else, you don't have much to say when you two are together.

  • Ashley
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    u should do something to occupy ur time so u are doing something to keep busy so ur not thinking about talking to her as much, or turn off ur phone, or something, idk how long u guys have dated but for some girls it can be a turn off and u can push her away

    but my bf met met, got my number, texted me next morning early, we texted all day, texted all night. I loved it, and he really thought about me,.

    its been 4 years together, he still texts me in mornings, he calls me about 4 times during the day, and he text me all before and after, so we talk all throughout the day, I see him every other night, but its nice, and I text him like every hour or call him every two hours, because we both love it, we both feel happy that we get to talk, but its not crazy obsessive, its normal to us, but maybe just wait for her to text u, let her be the one to do it first,

  • 7 years ago

    Had the same problem. Just tell her how you feel and talk about it. Really helps (:And if you don't want to talk to her about it, just do fun things at home or with friends and time will pass by. Everytime you feel like texting her just do something fun and leave your phone. But I would recommend talking to her. Good luck (:

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Make a rule that you wont text more than twice before receiving one in return and stick to it.

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  • 7 years ago

    not sure but girls loves long texts

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