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Will my girlfriend ever choose to be with me?

I know this is long for some of you but I finally got a girlfriend but she later told me that she already had a boyfriend who doesn't go to our school. She also revealed that she is not a virgin and I just got back together with her after breaking up with her because I believed that it's okay to go out with her even she is not a virgin. We knew each other for a long time and she been in love with me for three years no matter how mean I was to her throughout those years until I was in love with her. But I really don't know that just because she really likes me doesn't mean that she will choose me because she was taken long before we met. I texted her very nice things last night and she said that what I said was sweet but she also said that she is mad at that boy who like her because he wasn't calling her at all yesterday. So we been a couple for three days now and I'm really scared that I might loose her. Especially she is my first girlfriend and Valentine's Day is in three weeks. I was hoping to have my first V-Day with my first girlfriend. I don't know what I should do so she would choose me over her old boyfriend. I really need help and fast, I don't know what to do, I don't want to suffer from depression ever again because of this. Any ideas or suggestions? I need as much answers as possible to figure this out.

P.S: We been texting a lot and I'm trying to find some quality time with her. We also made a lot of contact in school.

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  • 7 years ago
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    Okay, she doesnt deserve your love. Why be a second option and or a rebound? Your the guy here. Step in and tell her its me or him. Let that skank know you wont always be here. If hes not calling her, its obvious girls want what they cant have. Maybe you should give that a try.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    this girl is using you. I really hate to say it but she is only trying to make you jealous and he is pretty much a player, she is not a virgin which means she will try and have sex with you if you stay with her. You will not want to remember her as your first valentine, believe me. A girl should support her guy and be faithful to him, not holding on to two guys. thats my advise :/

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