need major help with gf long distance please answer?

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im a guy but with my gf dating it hasnt felt real at all like i would say something meaningful and sweet and all she says is ok or awe, and she always hangs out with her bestfriend which is like a 30 year old guy and shes like 15, im 17 but she seems more committed to him than she is to me, and she always delay our dates from 1 week to 4 because she always gets into trouble with her best friend and we have never met in person yet, and she always act like she is not into me and id say i love you but she says ok every time and i asked why did you not say it back and she said the reason is because she's still getting over her ex and im considering a break up with her, sorry if this makes no sense but what you should understand is that im getting no where with her, what would you do if you were me right now?

Allie · Answer

I would tell her that you feel like things just aren&#x27;t working out and you dont want to be in a relationship&#x2F;emotionally involved with someone who doesn&#x27;t seem to feel mutually about you. I would just end it instead unless she is really apologetic and wants to change things AND you really want to give it another shot.  Its not right to waste your feelings on someone who blows you off, hangs out with 30 year old men (sounds sketchy), and try to act like you care about them when they don&#x27;t do the same for you. A relationship is supposed to make both people happy and feel loved&#x2F;cared about, and it doesn&#x27;t sound like she&#x27;s really doing anything to make you happy and its not worth it. I&#x27;m sure you can find someone more worthwhile.

Anonymous · Answer

if you never met her she is not a girlfriend she is a penpal

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