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Would you date someone who had has a one night stand in the past?

This is for guys and girls of any age. Could you date someone/have a serious relationship with someone who has had a one night stand, friends with benefits, bootycall, casual sex etc in the past? I'm the type of guy who is okay with one's past as long as it was in a relationship and they cared for the person. I'm trying to look past ones more promiscuous past but I can't help but wonder why I should feel special if they've has sex with someone they barely knew or cared about.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    If a guy ever told me about his sexual past it was in bits and pieces. Because I remind him of someone, or a girl did this to him. No guy has ever given me a girl by girl, blow by blow of his sexual history. Likewise that goes for me. I've talked about the high points of certain relationships or what kind of a nutcase a boyfriend was. Even if a guy asked I would probably not talk about the one night stands, there haven't been to many to be frank, or the summer flings. I spent 4 1/2 years in LA which is where all of this happened. I live in a different town now and there is absolutely no way any one could find out anything about my past period. What happened in LA will stay there as far as I'm concerned.

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    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    I have done things in the past I regret, unfortunately we are not born with total maturity and do make mistakes. Maybe I am different than most cause I dont judge people by their past but who I find them to be today. I seriously doubt in this day and age many people have not had some form of causal sex, oh and by the way if ur seeking a perfect woman to marry, do that woman a favor and stay single cause she will never measure up to that and dump her "perfect" mate.

  • 7 years ago

    I can, so long as it was in the past who am I to judge? It was before they met me so there is nothing that can be done now.

    Source(s): Both me and my partner have had one night stands in the past before we met, we have been together almost 3 years and have a daughter together, it doesnt affect us at all.
  • 7 years ago

    well, i mean if possible i would not. but everybody is different you know, some people want to experience one night stand just for the experience. i used to try to get one night stand and after sometime I realised that sex should be done if you are in a serious romantic relationship. I meant if you can just give sex easily to stranger, you do not value sex that much. In fact, sex is the most intimate act that human beings can do.

    People can change, but if you can, why not find a girl who hasnt done that and who is not really interested in one night stand, thats better no?

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  • 7 years ago

    I personally cant. But other people can. It depends on the person

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