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I was doing sweet talk with my gf and this happens, help?

Im a guy and i have a gf that i love very but right now she is mad at me because of this text " I don't know why the other guys had to throw you away like that, to me you are a national treasure that I'd keep forever :)" but she said "so you assume they just threw me away?" And I tried apologizing to her because i got the facts wrong but she got mad and doesn't even want to talk to me no more, and I am trying my all to give her space and I'd do anything and everything to keep my "national treasure" but do you guys THINK(not know) i will keep her ot will i lose her?help? Oh and btw I'm 17, she is 16 and she claims to have a really bad anxiety and a learning disability she says but I do not talk about it much so I thought the info could help a little more

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    You don't seem to have problems with the way you express yourself. Your intentions are good but the way you word things can be insulting. Referring to your gf is 'being thrown away' is like comparing her to trash which is simply a bad idea. Even if you follow up with a compliment (however strange it might be) it won't matter if you've already hurt her.

    Also, her anxiety and possible learning difficulties have NOTHING to do with the way you speak to her. You are the one who needs to change.

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