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My boyfriend's trashy present for my birthday?

I feel so upset. Literally I'm holding my tears! I just turned 20, and as a present my boyfriend gave me a silly gift!!! I know that I seem to you an arrogant brat but I'm not at all. If I posted a pic of what he gave me you'd understand. They're the cheapest earrings I've ever seen, maybe they're worth 5$, and they have the shapes of some baby feet and baby stuff. It looks like something he stole from his baby sister's room. I really don't get him. I wish he brought me some flowers or something decent. Still, I didn't say anything and I acted like oh I'm so happy, but I'm not. I'm disappointed and upset. Yes, he doesn't work, but he gets his money from his father. He even owns a blackberry porsche design. I don't know what to do except shutting my mouth and thinking of leaving him. I can't really ignore the fact that I need a man to spoil me, or just makes me feel special.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    7 years ago
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    You have a sense of entitlement. You won't be happy with anything. Even if he brought you a dozen roses, you'd want three dozen because...his DAD can afford it. Your boyfriend doesn't work and has no money. What people choose to spend their money on is none of your business. You don't know if they own the car or lease it, you don't know what bills they pay or how much money he actually has to spend. Instead of being passive-aggressive and venting a bunch of strangers on YA, tell your b/f you're unhappy with his gift. But prepare to explain the real reason why, you're a selfish little princess with a sense of entitlement and nothing but the best will make you happy. If you can't, leave him.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    If you love your b/f then you shouldn't mind.. it's a token of his adoration for you. If you threw it away and something happened to him tomorrow, you would be very upset because you threw it away. But if something happened to him and you had kept it, that trashy gift would become your most precious possession. Just be happy that you have someone who likes you.

  • 7 years ago

    You're being a bit like a spoiled brat. I understand that he's a dumb@ss but still.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Munga

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  • 7 years ago

    Its understable u would have liked something better, just try to give hints of things u like nxt time.

    Doesn't have to be nothin fancy but something tht shows he put thought into it

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    i bought my girl $5 earrings. she was ecstatic. even after seeing the 4.99 sticker i forgot to take off. somethings wrong with you.

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