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Why did he lie?

I went to the hospital to get the implant, my boyfriend said he would come with me, it is for his benefit too and I needed someone to come in case I didn't feel safe to drive afterwards. The appointment was booked for weeks.

The day before the appointment his friend asked him to go to Wales with him at the same time. Instead of saying he was coming with me, he told his friend he had a hospital appointment because apparently his friend wouldn't see my appointment as an appropriate excuse! His friend then said he'd take him to the hospital and they'd go to wales after, but obviously it was my appointment so he just told his friend I was going with him.

Anyway, he did come with me, but went to Wales straight after. Why couldn't he just tell his friend the truth and stand up for the fact he thought coming with me was more important?

He's let me down for his friend. For example he made me drive him home even though we'd arranged to spend the day together so he could go with his friend to pick up some cannabis and he asked him to last minute. I really didn't feel like taking him but I did. The he expected me to go round straight after.

What are your opinions on this? Should he have lied?

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  • 7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Because he didnt want to tell his friend he was going out with an idiot

  • ?
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    I think the fact that he actually came with you is more important than lying to his friend about it. Granted, I'm sure it doesn't make you feel all that great, but it is possible that his friend wouldn't have seen it as a good excuse. This just means that that guy isn't as good a friend to him, but he wants to follow through with his plans with you. He's basically trying to make everyone happy. I had friends who hated my boyfriend a few years ago, and I ended up doing that kind of thing to keep everyone off my back. It's a tough spot to be in. Maybe he shouldn't have lied, but it's more important that he kept this promise to you.

  • 7 years ago

    He didn't do anything wrong in not telling his friend the truth because it's private, but leaving you like that was a very bad thing to do. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. It's so not fair

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    it's a boob job, fake **** are gross what r u thinking

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