Ladies =) what would you consider attractive in a guy?

I love guys that are taller then me, that are intelligent, and will do anything to make me smile. Most people think that they have to be jerks to get a girl, not true! Sweet guys are the best kind of boyfriends! But if I had to chose one, it would be that he would hug me even in front of their friends! <3

Sorry to throw a rock in your roll there pal, but women are people. Real people that have different likes and dislikes from each other. There is no magical physical formula or personality checklist that will assure you success with the object of your desire.

What does seem to be universally revolting, however, are people who desperately try to morph themselves to other people's liking. That goes for men and women. Nothing throws up red flags like someone who tries to force a connection that just isn't there.

Here are some solid tips on how to be a cool person that might help:

1. Be generally clean

2. Have interests and hobbies of your own that you do not partake in just to attract a sexual mate. Aka: Be good at something for your own joy even if it's nerdy like playing Magic the Gathering or knowing how to knit.

3. When at parties, gatherings, outings, and other social settings, make it a goal to meet people, not to acquire sexual mates. It will take the pressure off both you and the people around you. Having friends and being approachable is the best way to eventually attract love.

4. Don't be an a$$hole to new women you meet just because the previous women you met weren't interested in you. We're not a club. We don't conspire to exclude some men from vagina-land.

I like someone who is defiantly taller than me, so very tall lol. Has nice eyes that draw you in preferably light blue. Olive tanned skin with a muscular body not to muscular though.

Shoulder length hair abit shorter. brown or blonde doesn't matter. Has to be clean and smell nice has a bit of a slight beard

He has to have a good personality or I will not date him, marry him. Funny, caring, gentleman, charismatic. But everyone has flaws. My friends and family accept him.

He surprises me all the time do nice caring things. Always leaves me guessing. The same taste of music and movies so we have lots to talk about

What I like in a guy....

1) He should have the same intellectuality as me.

2) He should have a sense of humor

3) He should be able to take things lightly.

4) He should be sensitive, but not clingy.

5) Proper, but not cheesy

6) Well-mannered

7) He should be a good boy

If he's good-looking that's a plus, but not a necessity

okay so this are the guys i find attractive

long blonde hair, blue eyes, clean, sporty, its really nice, treats u right, funny.

short hair and dark hair with blue eyes, nice, funny, tall, smells good, hes not into drugs, really into movies, music etc.

and for last

dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, pale, he's an as$hole, mysterious.

Those are the kind of guys that i've been attracted to

physically like Abdul

character and personality like Abdul when he does what he thinks he should not what he thinks people won't judge...

basically like Abi when we met, when he was generous and cool and funny, and kind and sexy, and himself...only now he is even better coz now he feels stuff...so my husband is now new and improved Abdul, comes together with feelings=)

basically all like Abdul, except that he left me here...that's the only think i don't like about him...

i cannot not like his PTSD, that's not him, that's just a condition...also, he took a lot of abuse before he snapped...so it's not like he's some unstable dude...so, i even like his PTSD...

so, yah, obviously he is my dream guy...would i suffer the past two years for any other but my dream guy, of course not...he's actually a little better than my dream guy...and that scares me....like even better than i imagined.,..

Is... Super fine in my eyes

Is... Taller than I

Is... Mellow/quite

Is... Direct even rude sometimes

Has... Certain goals

Has... Good beliefs

Does not take most ideas personal

Light hair and eyes

=)

I like a funny guy who is a gentleman and if hes cute thats a definite bonus =) also im kinda a nerd so smart guys r good too lol

I like a guy that's taller than me. Who knows how to make me laugh and has pretty eyes. If he has nice tattoos then that's a bonus