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Can I Be Mad About Boyfriend’s Password Change?
Early in my relationship with my boyfriend, he gave me the password to his accounts. For me that means I can check his accounts whenever I feel like it. I’ve done that in the past and it was major arguments because I didn’t like the fact that he was engaging in conversation with random females/ex-girlfriends or sending/receiving dirty pics of other females with his friends.
He told me “as long as you check my accounts you will forever be jealous.” It’s not a jealousy issue for me. It’s more so respect.
6 months later I come to see he has a new password, which was changed 12 hours after a major argument. Can I be mad about him changing it and not saying anything? Is that grounds for a break up?
8 Answers
- 7 years ago
Well, when two people love each other, there should not be anything, anything at all that one person should be jealous of any other person who have an influence on ur bf. Cuz you're two people in love so there should not be anything in between to break you apart. Your love should never part.
But If I were you, I would be mad at him cuz I have every right to check his facebook account since he's my boyfriend and no one else's and also, he can also check mine if he wants. And I wouldn't want him to say that I'm gonna be jealous cuz I would've felt really bad.
And not only you, no one would want their boyfriends to chat with their ex-es or to view dirty pictures.
So you have EVERY right to be mad at him. If you do not want this relationship to end, talk to him calmly about what you feel and ask him the reason why he changed his password, and even then, if he's damn sure that he's not gonna stop viewing or talking with dirty girls, then break up. Cuz you deserve some one better.
Good luck. May the odds be in ur favour. :)
- ?Lv 77 years ago
Should you be mad for this? NO. let him be himself if he is cheating you will soon find out.
But checking on his account shows the lack of trust from you.
- 7 years ago
Passwords Not good:/ He's hiding something are doing it to upset you at this point and time. Don't bring It up to him right now. Wait about 3 weeks to see if he will tell you on his own. I have two brothers and the one that keeps the passwords from his girlfriend is the one who's always cheating and the (other brother) wife knows everything and they are happily married. :) You should always know all passwords
Source(s): married for 8 years - menykatsLv 77 years ago
I do not care how close you are to another person or if you trust them, or not. The first rule of the internet is NEVER share your password with ANYBODY, for any reason. If someone learns your password, change it immediately. You might as well have asked him to tell you his Social Security number.
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- 7 years ago
I think the fact that he changed his password means 1 of 2 things ! Firstly he is hiding something and doesn't want you to find or secondly he thinks your invading his privacy ? I think he might be hiding something from you maybe talk to him ?!
- 7 years ago
Well, maybe you can't be mad because he really needs his own privacy but after what you saw? After all those sh*tty things he did behind your back? I Think you should just break up with him because trust me there's a lot of guys out there wanting to be in his place :)
- Anonymous7 years ago
Wow no respect nor trust
