Unattracted old lady body that had kids would not get turn on be better to have sex in the dark Help?

My best friend female Aries age 56 is dating this guy age 56 for a year talking and texting. He is a Libra meet after talking for a year, the distance is only 1 hours, after the second meet they had sex in the dark, T.V was on, which went fine, the third meet was in the daytime. She wanted to know if he was attracted to her, it turn out that he was attracted to her personality, but not her body. He said the body is unattractive, old lady body, that had kids, if she was on the porn channel would not get turn on and would change the channel, it would be better to have sex in the dark, the thought of them, 2 old people kissing is sick. He left the ex-gf a year ago, she turn him on, she has a condition of vestibulodynia, its a condition that makes it tight in the vagina, but also painful. the ex-wife 7 yrs divorce was 12 yrs younger turn him on divorce because she is a lesbian. My friend is 51' weights 137lb. had 5 kids. He is overweight no kids. He would still have sex with all the flaws, since he is no better and old too and is glad he gets some. He said he is being honest. What should she do and what do you think about the guy? He still says he is a nice guy and is being honest. thx everyone.