Is this a date or not? I'm so confused :(?

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So I'm 17 years old and a guy. A few weeks ago I met this girl (let's call her Jess for confidentiality purposes) at a college meet up. Over their me, Jess, her best friend, my friend, and a few more people separated from the group. We continued to hang out and I got her number (well she gave everyone her number). Then a week later we all hung out again but this time she always stayed with me. Then when I got home, I had a snapchat from her and we snapchatted back and forth until she texted me like a couple days later. We've been talking everyday all day for the past few days and today she asked me if I wanted to hang out Saturday and go to dinner. I was busy so I didn't reply right away. 10 minutes later she sent me another text saying that I could also come with her friends and her Friday if I wanted. I told her Saturday was fine and now we're going to dinner. I'm picking her up from her job and "surprising" her with a place (my decision). She's coming alone and her best friend isn't coming.But the word "date" wasn't mentioned anywhere in the conversation. So do you think this is a date? Or is it just as a friend thing?

livy · Answer

maybe shes not sure either so u tell her its a date cos girls lovve that kind of confident dominant guy thing it looks totaly good and guys and makes us feel drawn towards him more so if u want it to b a date u make it be a date

Karlyishere · Answer

She may not know either. Just be fun and flirty on the night and see what happens :)

Anonymous · Answer

i think she wants to give you head!

Claire · Answer

hard to tell what her intentions are without knowing the wording of her texts, etc, as it may be either at the moment. hard to tell if she was flirting with you, or honestly just wants another friend. go to the dinner, and see how it goes, i would play it by ear for now,
did you want it to be more? 
if you are still confused, it is ok to ask if this is a date or you're just out as friends.

but personally. i would go, and see how things unfold. if she flirts with you, or insinuates that she wants more. she might not want to make the first move if she does think it's a date... but considering it was her who asked you to dinner, then i don't think she would have any qualms about making the first move.

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Is this a date or not? I'm so confused :(?

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