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Do you think this is a date?? I'm confused :(?

So I'm 17 years old and a guy. A few weeks ago I met this girl (let's call her Jess for confidentiality purposes) at a college meet up. Over their me, Jess, her best friend, my friend, and a few more people separated from the group. We continued to hang out and I got her number (well she gave everyone her number). Then a week later we all hung out again but this time she always stayed with me. Then when I got home, I had a snapchat from her and we snapchatted back and forth until she texted me like a couple days later. We've been talking everyday all day for the past few days and today she asked me if I wanted to hang out Saturday and go to dinner. I was busy so I didn't reply right away. 10 minutes later she sent me another text saying that I could also come with her friends and her Friday if I wanted. I told her Saturday was fine and now we're going to dinner. I'm picking her up from her job and "surprising" her with a place (my decision). She's coming alone and her best friend isn't coming. But the word "date" wasn't mentioned anywhere in the conversation. The conversation was basically:

Her: hey so when do you wanna hang out? (She said it randomly)

Me: I asked her when she's free (she wasn't supposed to be free for a couple weeks)

Her: I can go to dinner this Saturday after my shift at my job (she works at a restaurant)

I didn't reply for a few minutes

Her: or if you wanna meet my friends to you can come tomorrow.

I picked the alone dinner. Is this a date?

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  • 7 years ago

    Possibly, possibly not, in most cases the guy normally pays for dinner, chivalry at times, and maybe alittle sexist... But normally if it was a date, sometimes they won't say it is, just to try and keep things as less awkward as possible.. It could just be a friendly dinner. Do you like her? Does she like you? Had there been any signs that might hint? I would say it only matters you you see it if it's a date or not, though it's very trivial, just go out and have fun, not worrying about the little things. If you guys are "just friends" and happy with it, keep it that way, and look at it as two friends just hanging out having some fun.

  • Fulano
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Sure, but dates aren't a big deal, they aren't a commitment, they are just something fun to go do with a friend.

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