Wedding dress similar to this one?

This is his line through Mon Cheri. Mon Cheri dresses are actually quite affordable, this one is in the $1500 range but they have other designers and similar lines that are cheaper.

http://www.bestbridalprices.com/david-tutera-style...

Other similar designers are:

Alfred Angelo (which are even less cost wise)

David's Bridal (the walmart of wedding designers but they have collections by top designers such as Vera Wang as well)

Mori Lee

Maggie Sottero

http://www.maggiesottero.com/stores.aspx (lots of locations in Utah).

I wore a Maggie Sottero dress, and they have many similar to the one by David Tutera you like. Their website they also have a section called "Maggie Bridges" which are pictures of real brides wearing their dresses at their own weddings and it can give you an idea of what the dresses look like on real women and what might be or not be flattering on your body type.

If you have a bridal shop within a travel distance to you just show them what you like and what your budget is and they should be able to find some things for you to choose from.

Find a bridal shop near you and show them the picture.

You will have trouble finding sexy dresses in Utah cuz the people there want women to be plain and not sexy. Try a shop in Salt Lake city if you are close to salt lake. Otherwise I don't know what to say. I agree, the problem is you live in Utah and Utah is a big state. Have you given any thought to escaping to California or colorado?