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Is this selfish of me? Your opinion Libra and Taurus?
My partner of over two years likes me to come to bed when he does (He is a Taurus). I'm off work today and tomorrow and start a new job on tuesday (I'm a Libra). On the other hand he has been off work for a couple of days and needs to be awake in 3 hours from now. I am unable to sleep and because I am off work tomorrow I want to stay up and drink wine. I told him to go to sleep and that I am ok but I cannot sleep. He finds it hard to sleep without me in bed and is angry that I am not in bed. He always comes to bed when I am going to bed (eventhough I tell him he does not have to). I do prefer him to come to bed with me obviously though. Most nights I come to bed when he wants to come to bed, but about once per week I like to stay up. I drink a lot when I am off work the next day. I give him lots of attention, but it keeps him awake if I do not come to bed.
I meant am I being selfish for making it hard for him to sleep when he has work in the morning if he comes to bed with me whenever I want (eventhough I give him the option not to if he choses); or is he being more selfish for not understanding me wanting one night when I can stay up and have a little time to myself spent on my own?
Me: Libra Sun, Scopio Venus, Capricorn Mars ////// Him: Taurus Sun, Aries Venus, Libra Mars
With a fantastic Taurus partner who I love very much, but I dont want to be selfish and similarly I sometimes need my own space; and similarly I don't want to be taken advantage of because I have needs as well. He would not do it intentionally though. He can be short fused sometimes though, but I don't mind that and he means the world to me.
5 Answers
- 7 years ago
whether it's selfish of you or not is arguable, although your behavior is i suppose understandable since libra people are generally less clingy than taurus people. no offense but you're actually not a very good match for him so there will most probably be even more problems in the future but with patience and understanding maybe you guys can work it out. good luck!
- 7 years ago
Little baby misses his mommy tucking him in eh? First, Lala is right, get some help for your compulsive drinking. And second, stand your ground. You don't have to do EVERYTHING a man tell you.
- 7 years ago
lol lazy-*** taurus.
I'm kidding.
He obviously loves you and wants you to be his cuddle-buddy 24/7.
Would you rather sleeping in an empty bed?
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