My current partner kissed her ex, I'm a little confused.Advice anyone?

She was honest with you about everything so far. I don't think that she'd start sneaking behind your back to see her ex all of a sudden. She seems to really like you and respect you and want to make it work. I think that you need to do what's best for you, however. If you don't think she's over this guy and you're just going to end up getting hurt, then walk away. If you think that you two actually stand a chance then give it one. Maybe take some time to yourself and see what you really want. Good luck hope this helped

Please help me??

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if you two was actually in relationship then bad news. you guys wasn't officially dating, but she wanted to take things further with you, admitted she made out with her ex, and now wants date you. she didn't cheat on you given circumstances, but i'd be concerned why she kissed him then-- shows some feelings. i don't know, i'm messed up when it comes to this kind of stuff, but what she does being single is her business, and what she does before actually being in relationship with you shouldn't be held against her. but the whole thing of handing her you phone so you know she ain't talking to him... that doesn't prove nothing, and makes no sense to me. that's something making me think sort of wtf up with that? seem weird. because if she talking to her ex or not, that ain't prove nothing. it just false-security. oh yea, i don't talk to my ex like.. at ALL. here, have my phone so u know that. well ok, but ain't mean you two don't talk after we done hanging out. i dunno

so yeah big question here is if she really over him. since she told you about it and willing get in actual relationship, it suggests she really is willing to move on... but it just unsettling thought that, if, say, one day you two get in a fight.. or she out drinking... next thing you know runs into her ex. or unsettling for you to have the thoughts in back your mind if she talking to him behind your back. this stuff can only be sorted out by you really, since you know her personally, or by people that know her too

As long as she's having regular sex with you then chances are it truly was a one-time mistake (by mistake I mean action she finds stupid or lacked the impulse not to do).

But if she isn't having sex with you, then chances are she's a cheater and is using you for money or emotional support

I supposed that if you really love her, then do not bother by other things. The most important thing in relationship is love, you love her and she loves you is enough. And don't compare who is love more, cuz love is simple and beautiful. In all. this is a little thing.