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I don't know what to do, help?

For 8 months I've been seeing this guy that has kids. He's everything I've wanted and I'm crazy about him. However, my parents know nothing about him accept for the fact that he has kids and they won't accept it. They cry about it, threaten to kill themselves, scream, verbally abuse me and all because I want to do what makes me happy.

I love my parents so much but I love my boyfriend too, I don't know what to do. Tonight my boyfriend took me home and my parents came out and yelled at him, they were calling him a bas.tard, an a.sshole, telling him to **** off and he was nicely but firmly telling them that I'm an adult and they should just respect my decisions. But my parents didn't care, they went back in the house away from him and told me that if I want to still be with him, that I have to get out of the house and never talk to them again.

I honestly don't know what to do...I'm soo stressed out and confused and miserable to be honest.

What do I do ? I can't lose my parents

If it helps, I'm 22

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    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Move out to the cheapest apartment you can find. Then call your grandparents and tell them they only have once last chance to talk to your parents since they will be killing themselves after you move out and continue dating the guy.

    If your grandparents cannot help you, then it's time to move into adulthood completely on your own.

    I hope you have a respected relative who you can trust and will stand by your side when it comes to dealing with your parents.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    first of all think about if you want to take on kids

    the consider which one you would rather loose , your parents or your boyfriend

    they are plenty of guys in the world, you will probably find another good guy. but if your parents are like that im really not sure they don't seem very supportive at all im sorry you have parents that behave that way :(

    but if you cant loose your parents your going to have to loose the boyfriend , but i know that would make you very upset. im sorry but i really dont have a direct answer for you as much as i wish i did :(

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