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I don't like him!!! Help?

There is this guy and he's had a crush on me for a couple years, but I've just never felt the same way. He's one of my best friends and I've talked to him about this, but he still keeps pushing me... He also keeps guys from me, like I'll be asking my crush about a question on the homework and the guy who likes me will come, stare at my crush until he leaves! I've talked to him about this too, but he won't stop! I've made it very clear, but he keeps pressuring me! I will never like him in that way! How do I get him to realize that?!

I also think he stalks me, he'll send me tons of texts, call me and like ALL of my pictures on Facebook/Instragram, and I also found out yesterday that he told everybody we were dating for the past two years! I need help, please!

And please no hate comments <3

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  • Keno
    Lv 5
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Time to shut him out of your life and don't tell him you're doing it. He'll only get more dangerous as the years progress. As long as you leave room for him to be in your life he will push his will upon you.

    Dump your social accounts. (it's be a cleansing for you. You'll be amazed at how good it'll feel to be free of social networks for a couple months.) You can always create new accounts in the future.

    Change your phone number and avoid him at all cost. When he ask if you changed your phone number or dumped or blocked him. Tell him you don't want to talk about it right now.

    Source(s): I've had my share of stalkers.
  • 7 years ago

    It sounds like he is a fake friend. Real friends would eventually listen to you. This may be mean to say, but he might just be your best friend because he likes you. I would tell him to either stop or you're just going to block him/not talk to him anymore. It may be harsh for you and him but it would be the only way to get him to stop.

    Source(s): This happened to me too.
  • 7 years ago

    I think you need to have 1 final serious conversation to tell him to back off. And if he doesn't, next conversation is going to your parents going to school to speak to the principal or his parents.

  • 7 years ago

    it's one thing if he's pressuring you into dating, but if you've told him multiple times to stop what he's doing and he continues to do it and pressures you into it, that's the point where you need to tell him that if he doesn't quit you can't be his friend because he's ruining all your future relationships. and the fact that he's telling people you've been dating for 2 years is weird and messed up, and you need to

    speak up.

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