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My boyfriend was speaking to another girl?

Theres a girl both my bf and I know, she hates me because she fancied my bf. My bf said he'd never add her on fb because of how horrible she is to me for no real reason, Iactually thought she was already in a relationship.

I noticed she added him on fb, and felt a bit suspicious. I know his password, and although I shouldn't have I curiously had a look. She sent him a message saying 'happy birthday beautiful xx'. He replied and they've been talking with kisses since.

I've noticed he gave her his number, and he also apologised for being horrible (I didn't know he had) and said he needs to make things up to her. She asked what I would think to that, his responded saying he didnt know and she just said lol.

He has recently deleted the conversation, obviously he has something to hide and doesn't know I've seen it.

We get on well together, I don't want to confront him, him say it was nothing and him then hide things from me.

Do I tell him I saw the messages? I know they were friends before I went out with him, I was friends with her too but she now seriously dislikes me.

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  • 7 years ago

    I know a lot of people are saying end it with him. But remember that this is a forum and not people you you personally. I say listen to all the advice on Y!A but ultimately make your own decision.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Don't end it just yet , confront him , ask him about it . Yes you were snooping around but what you saw was meant to be seen ! If all ends in odds then end it with him, men can be a bit overwhelming but i mean at a day's end you're the main chick !

  • 7 years ago

    finish it with him, if he's hiding conversations and stuff he isn't worth it

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I have the same problem . Just have one of yout friends explain to him that your noticing hes talking to this girl . & maybe you & your friend will find a way to make him understand your feelings c:

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Tell him you saw the messages because if he does has something to hide he will reply most likely acting strange as if there is nothing , although im sure its all fine- please answer my recent question

  • 7 years ago

    End it with him. She probably hates you because she's the other women. Confront him about it. As a matter a fact as him questions like have you ever spoke to her did you give her your number and if he Denys it then confront him about the msg. If he lies then he's obviously hiding something. End it then

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