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how can I stop over thinking to make this summer easier for me?

My sense of imagination has really made my life hard these past few weeks. I recently started talking to my ex gf of a 1 and 3/4 and it's been hard being just friends with her. She takes me to work because we both work in the place. Whenever I walk in with her she talks to a dude and it bothers me

She also told me that she had sex with 3 guys from work and it bothers me that i even imagine her ...face of pleasure with the guys and it makes me upset or angry or how dudes blow her kisses at work or how a guy took her phone and went through it searching for "naughty pictures" or how a guy picked her up. I can imagine her having fun and stuff even though she tells me she's done messing with guys at work and that she wants me back...

Over thinking her....relations with guys makes me mad or upset and my work shifts are just unbearable because of them. How can I stop thinking so much about her and what she does. I understand she's single but I loved her and I'm still around her. I plan to work there till school starts again so I can get a car. The job says very well in my opinion that's why I work there...

How can I make this summer easier for me

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  • 7 years ago

    Get back together with her if she likes you or find someone new. Once you have someone else in your life to give 'pleasure faces' and blow kisses too you won't think about her just your new girl. I was in a similar bind. I was a senior in high school and was dating a college freshman. The distance and all of that was hard so we broke up. I tried to stay friends, but in her college experimental phase stuff she partied a lot and apparently had like 2 three ways. I didn't really want her back, but when we would talk her day to day life just bugged me too much. What fixed it was moving on to someone new.

    Source(s): 20 year old guy
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