Darius

I do not really want to tell my family simply because they'll either tell me to keep the child, scold me for it, and i can not take care of a child at this moment.

I'm 20 if anyone is wondering. still in college and currently unemployed. We feel that an open adoption will be better that way the child will have a family that can take care of it and me and my girlfriend can get ourselves together by finishing our schooling.

I just feel bad if my mother does not know but at the same time i already know how this will turn out as stated above.

Again if we go through with the adoption it will be an open adoption meaning we will have information about the child, pictures, letters, videos etc and it as it grows up.

I do not really want to tell my family simply because they'll either tell me to keep the child, scold me for it, and i can not take care of a child at this moment.

I'm 20 if anyone is wondering. still in college and currently unemployed. We feel that an open adoption will be better that way the child will have a family that can take care of it and me and my girlfriend can get ourselves together by finishing our schooling.

I just feel bad if my mother does not know but at the same time i already know how this will turn out as stated above.

I understand some guys like their women showing off their body, but what about the guys who don't like that? Now i understand the usual saying "you can't control a human being" but what if you talk to your partner and they still prefer to show off their body.

i understand some women believe "if i have a nice body i want to show it off to the world" and some do it to feel good about themselves, but if you're dating shouldn't the opinion of the man you're with matter the most? If you're single i understand showing off your nice body to grab the attention of others. But if you're dating and showing it off us guys get the opinion of

1.) she has a nice body

2.) she looking for some attention

3.) that man is lucky to be with her

a lot of girls thing guys don't think that but... as a guy with male friends i can confirm we think those things.

also i know most shirts are made to show cleavage for women show their breast can breathe, but if the guy you love ask, not demand, you to not show so much cleavage wouldnt it be best for you to take it into consideration and maybe show less? or not wear short shorts? etc

My sense of imagination has really made my life hard these past few weeks. I recently started talking to my ex gf of a 1 and 3/4 and it's been hard being just friends with her. She takes me to work because we both work in the place. Whenever I walk in with her she talks to a dude and it bothers me

She also told me that she had sex with 3 guys from work and it bothers me that i even imagine her ...face of pleasure with the guys and it makes me upset or angry or how dudes blow her kisses at work or how a guy took her phone and went through it searching for "naughty pictures" or how a guy picked her up. I can imagine her having fun and stuff even though she tells me she's done messing with guys at work and that she wants me back...

Over thinking her....relations with guys makes me mad or upset and my work shifts are just unbearable because of them. How can I stop thinking so much about her and what she does. I understand she's single but I loved her and I'm still around her. I plan to work there till school starts again so I can get a car. The job says very well in my opinion that's why I work there...

How can I make this summer easier for me

i'm pretty sure people do it all the time but my main question is, am i wrong to have sex with a girl i don't want to date? let me explain, sex and relationships are two different things to me. sex is great but having someone to call yours is better. as long as the girl is okay with having sex no feelings attach i see nothing wrong with it. main reason is because me personally i dislike to get feelings attached it makes things complicated with jealousy issues or any other issues that come from dating.

I'm saying this because i wish to have sex but not date anyone till i find the right person in college while being safe of course.

i wouldn't feel comfortable with her working at her current job. She has a lot of guys trying to get with her she personally told me 7 guys want to have sex with her. She works with 2 of the guys she had sex with not to mention dated. just today she told me a guy took her phone and he searched through it for "naughty pictures" and he even asked her if she would have a 3some with him

she even tells me guys blow her kisses while shes at work and a guy even picked her up at work. i personally would not feel comfortable with her around guys like that while we're dating. am i wrong for feeling this way? i did date her for a year and 3/4 thats why i still have feelings for her and get jealous whenever i hear or see this at our job (i plan to leave that place once school starts up so i won't be around her and see that type of stuff and stress about it)

also before someone calls me stupid, someone has before, for working there its because i'm working to get a car and the job pays fairly well with a well amount of hours (25 a week plus a couple of overtime hours)

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Hey everyone so recently I've started working at the same place my ex works because it pays well and close by. We've been apart for half a year now and I still have some feeling a for her just not strong like before

We dated for 1 and 3/4 of a year and broke up from to much arguing. My problem is that I really loved her the time we were in the relationship. We were both our first sex partners and had a great relationship till it turned sour.

At work I see her talk to guys, and at my workplace, UPS, men are hounds I know what they want, and i know she has dated and had sex with a few of them cause she told me whenever she drove me to work. Stuff I didn't want to hear. I understand we're not dating but I didn't want to hear that stuff.

How can I not get jealous when I see her talking to a dude knowing they're flirting with her and just want to have sex with her? I know I shouldn't and I'm trying to let it not get to me but I cared for her so deeply It's hard to not get bothered

Now a sophomore in college and my freshman year I realized how much having no money sucks. This year I plan to work just not at my current job UPS. At UPS I get over 25hrs a week with a lot of physical work usually sore the following day

My friend really suggest I stay but personally the amount of money isn't too important to me. I have a scholarship that helps most of the way and again I plan to work during school but not at UPS due to the physical demand and I would be to tired for late studying. And 25hrs plus 16 credits hours means no free time for anything.

Only good thing for UPS is insurance after a year of work and a 15k grant after a full semester. But again a smooth income of 10 hrs or slightly more is great enough for me. Any comments or suggestions really

Hey guys I'm curious about good snacks I should eat to help me keep my energy up at work. I work at UPS as a loader and it's a lot of lifting and sweating and I quickly get tired most likely do to not eating the right food before work.

what are some tips on what food I should eat before and snacks for during work to help keep me energized for atleast 6 hours of hard work

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I am 19 going on 20 years young and just finished my freshman year of college. This first year i sort of had the "college experience" mild partying, meeting new people, sex of course etc. And i actually enjoyed it even though i could have a lot more fun.

This summer i'm currently working at UPS to gain money to buy a car. My plan is to work and get a car then quit and find a job on campus. why would i quit? reason being is that its 5 days a week 5-10 or later every night. I'm obligated to do at least 15 credit hours per semester to stay with my scholarship. I honestly do not want to spend my whole college life doing nothing but school and work and school and work. I understand money is a necessity in this word but you're only young once. I rather find a job that has me work maybe... 2-3 days a week with decent pay.

now the benefits of the job is $10 starting pay, health benefits if i work there for a year, a $15,000 reimbursement if i work there for a whole semester and i think that's about it. These are all wonderful benefits but i hear UPS takes a huge toll over your body over a certain amount of time. I honestly do not think sacrificing my freedom and youth is worth a stressed out body from work and mind from school.

Honestly if i was the type of person who had the willpower and focused only on school and work i would do it but i would like to live a little meet people and have fun.

am i making the right choice?

More like compliment a girl. When it comes down to complimenting a complete stranger especially a female i find myself thinking to hard on how to approach her. especially if shes looking at her phone or I'm behind. I hesitate thinking "should i tap her on the shoulder" "should i say excuse me..."

also how can i start off approaching a girl to not just compliment her but to actually have a conversation with her. if any personal information i am 19, dated my first gf for 2 years and have had multiple sex partners. but my skills for approaching a girl is still off. to this day i question myself how i have female friends. I am in college too so you can imagine the how many females i see a day.

i would like some serious help please tips to not sound like a creeper and what to do like after i compliment a girl cause when i do compliment the girl it feels awkward to just go "hey i like your hair" "thank you" me: *walk off*

thanks!

I have only smoked twice my life. my second time was on november 16th and i did have a situation where i used epsom salt to clear my system out for like constipation. i try to drink plenty of water whenever i can and i can't remember how much i smoked that day. i want to sign up for a job and it requires a drug test. would i pass since i've only smoked twice?

i met this girl 2 weeks ago, and she's attractive and nice. i've had her number since the day we met, but whenever i text her she texts a few messages then just stops texting me. for example yesterday we were talking in the morning only sent maybe 3-5 messages back to each other. i texted her a message at 12:50pm of yesterday and she has responded to me.

i saw her today and she's on the phone. my conclusion she's ignoring me. like literally she's always on the phone even my friends say she's always on the phone. i do not like when a girl texts me then stop but is always on the phone so i know she's not busy. her constantly doing this has made me lose interest. whenever she's around i don't feel like talking to her so while everyone else is talking to her and stuff i just stay quiet.

i've thought about confronting her about it but... i don't know if i should she might think i'm trying to be controlling or jealous or something. what should i do. should i try to continue to text her... confront her. or what i'm just confused.

So far within 30 mins i've lost 7% when i first got my new phone it did last a good long time but now give or take 5 hours it will be at 20% or lower. I'm not sure the problem or how to fix it.

I have my screen adjustment on, my other extra features are off only data, screen rotation and wifi is on. I also have lookout app, a weather app and my battery app running. In my battery use neither of the listed apps are being counted as the source of the drain. What can i do to fix it? And now within this question being typed I'm now at 91%

college student now and people still treat me the same as in high school

for example in a group discussion no one actually listens to me they may stare at me but they completely ignore what i'm saying and listen to someone else.

or if i'm hyper and trying to have fun i'm looked at as if i'm crazy and told to calm down. but if someone else does it, it's party time and people applaud or whatever

whenever i get mad at something and complain people tell me "dude shut up let that go" while if someone else complained about something they relate to it with them

or people are fake to me. i say hey but if they're around other people they ignore me but if they're alone they acknowledge me

or if i'm texting someone they ignore me and text others and act like they never received my text like today. this girl that acts nice around me just ignores me and all through text and she's on her phone all the damn time but does she text me no. i'm not jealous i just see it as a fake move.

or like today. now i understand i was in the wrong for what i did but i asked a girl if i could ask her a personal question. she said sure and the question was simply, are you a virgin. Instead of saying yes, no, or i prefer not to answer she gives me an attitude and says "What the hell kinda question is that? You're obviously a virgin if you're asking that." and from reading that i got pissed. i felt she couldve said "i prefer not to answer" and says i disrespected her. and goes off on me. in response i told her she needs to calm down and that it was a simple yes or no and that i wasn't aiming to disrespect her.

honestly i'm a nice guy but this nice card is really getting to me. its like no one respects me i'm always last anyone wants to listen to or hang out with. just today a girl even thinks i'm a virgin for whatever reason i told her i'm not but i doubt she believes me.

my level of tolerance is reaching the point where i simply stop being so nice and doing favors for people and for all the fake people i just ditch them or go off on them in response because for not talking to me just because i look like a nerd because my glasses or whatever cause the other dude is more better looking than me is just... pissing me off.

any advice anything i should do should i just not worry about it. what its just pissing me to stop being so nice to others.

I'm mad they saw them like it felt like a special bond was broken.. I dont know what they'll think her when they she her with me but they saw because she sent a picture and forgot that they were sitting there on my phone.

So I was sitting in back seat middle I clicked on her message and the guy said oh I see ****. I wasnt thinking to lie and say oh yea just some girl. I said theyre my gfs stupid of me I know and another friend claims he saw. So I told her what happened and said not to come to my dorm for a week or so hopefully they'd forget by then simply because we're in college and a lot of stuff going on

One of em that saw even told me to share. I said....wtf dude no but ah I don't know how to deal with this. What if they see us together or just her and think oh I saw her titties. Its bugging me

I have 2 choices. the first is the 16 Meal Plan Plus M which comes with 16 meals swipes per week and 150 flex dollars. so i can eat once during breakfast, lunch, dinner. and the flex dollars allow me to eat anywhere that i can't use the meal swipes at. so i guess for a quick snack. Flex dollars are the same as regular dollars just for school though. its for scheduled eaters i'm told

or the All Access Meal Plan which allows me to come in at anytime i would want to and as many times as i would like. but no flex dollars i would have to pay for those myself. so i'd be limited to just a few stores that take meal swipes.

In high school well we were scheduled eaters and i was fine with that except moments where im starving and eager to go eat and i was fine with breakfast and lunch then eat dinner at home. i barely grew hungry in between. Plus i get full easily at times. 16 Meal plan is 1650 per semester and the all access is 1750 all semester.

so again 16 meal plan, 16 swipes and 150 flex dollars (flex dollars renew per semester) or an all access to eat any time i would like for 1750 but no flex dollars and limited where to eat

I have 2 choices. the first is the 16 Meal Plan Plus M which comes with 16 meals swipes per week and 150 flex dollars. so i can eat once during breakfast, lunch, dinner. and the flex dollars allow me to eat anywhere that i can't use the meal swipes at. so i guess for a quick snack. Flex dollars are the same as regular dollars just for school though. its for scheduled eaters i'm told

or the All Access Meal Plan which allows me to come in at anytime i would want to and as many times as i would like. but no flex dollars i would have to pay for those myself. so i'd be limited to just a few stores that take meal swipes.

In high school well we were scheduled eaters and i was fine with that except moments where im starving and eager to go eat and i was fine with breakfast and lunch then eat dinner at home. i barely grew hungry in between. Plus i get full easily at times. 16 Meal plan is 1650 per semester and the all access is 1750 all semester.

so again 16 meal plan, 16 swipes and 150 flex dollars (flex dollars renew per semester) or an all access to eat any time i would like for 1750 but no flex dollars and limited where to eat

My girlfriend sends hugs and kisses through the phone even massages. Generally if I'm aching somewhere. Like my head she sent a message saying " hug kiss massage your head". I'm thinking its pointless unless its actually in person. And a bit ridiculous

I'd really appreciate it if you read all before you answer. Thanks!

So about to start college in a week me and my gf are going to the same college and I know I can't keep her from making friends. She needs some friends anyway and I know they all won't be male no matter how much I'd like. I've been dating her for almost 2 years now.

My worse experience I've had with her talking to a guy was with my best friend. I felt hey he's new to our school how (back in junior year) about he makes friends with her so he'd know someone. I thought they'd have just casual conversations. But he joked around with her alot (he says it wasn't aLot) and she talked to him a lot more than me. She says its cause she was nervous around me not him. But id always try to get her to talk but but nothing.

So after awhile I felt they got too close and said something now they don't talk been 2 years. I still feel uncomfortable when they say something not that its often. I mean not having your gf talk to you while she talks to someone else.....seems wrong to me.

Now you're probably, dude that's years ago. You've almost been with her for 2 years obviously she wont leave you. But I can't just in my blood. Since.... i was born jealousy has been an issue. I just always kept to myself. But with my gf... i know that if she had more friends she'd talk to me less. That's how she treated me when she was talking to my friend. And that's what I worry about.

I also have this mindset that when it comes down to me and another dude im always the last choice. Not the most fun to be around... etc

Im just trying to not be so controlling and not get bothered just let her do what she does. Any tips How to help out?