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Is this suspicious or am I over-reacting? Boyfriend trouble?
My boyfriend cheated on his ex-girlfriend of 5 years, which worries me a lot.
He has lied to me a few times about various things, but he's never cheated as far as I'm aware. We both told each other our facebook passwords as we agreed neither of us had anything to hide.
However, my boyfriend went out for a stag do a few days ago, just before he went I noticed he changed his facebook password. (I noticed this as he lied to me about something the week before and felt a bit suspicious as it caused me to lose a lot of trust in him).
Is this suspicious? He's not the sort of person who changes his password constantly for security reasons and it seemed odd he'd change it just before he went out clubbing.
It's made me really paranoid and I'm not sure I can cope with it any more. I've never lied about anything to him, however he has lied a few times to me. E.g. he offered to give a girl who he knows fancies him and therefore hates me a lift and hid it from me, I found out, however I can't help but think it could have been more going on between them although he assures me there wasn't.
What do I do?
3 Answers
- Anonymous7 years ago
Its normal to worry and no you are not over reacting. You should ask him straight up and make sure he comes out with the truth because you will just get your heart broken in the end. You seem like you love him alot but its not worth going through a lie so you really need to confront him
- Anonymous7 years ago
If you want me to be honest I think you are right to worry. If he's done this before he's likely to do it again because these types of people like to chase women and say hell to the consequences. It's not healthy if there is no trust and it's certainly not fair on you to be sitting about worrying what he's up to when obviously he's being deceptive. Sit down with him and lay the cards on the table and sort it out - but if he isn't willing to do this then the unfortunate solution is to go separate ways.
Source(s): Experience of life - Blundt CakeLv 77 years ago
Why bother to be with someone you don't trust?
He's already proven himself to be a liar and a cheater.
What more do you need to know?
It seems so petty and immature to be in a relationship where you need to monitor someone's FB account and password and worry about what they do.
Is this really what you want in a relationship? Is this how you want to live your life?
