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My girlfriend is threatening to commit suicide if I break up with her.?

ok been together almost five years now and well its getting frustrating to say the least and i just want to start moving forward and not be dragged down all the time she lied about every thing she had just did to me she had it all planned out said she took all her pills or some thing even had her cousin help out with taking over the texting saying she was going to the hospital and come to find out she lied about every thing and now im like what the **** do i do i feel trapped and all i want is out any help with this would be greatly appreciated

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  • 7 years ago
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    Break up with her. If you know her family, call and tell them that she has threatened suicide. If she threatens it again when you are breaking up with her, call the police and tell them what she said.

    Then, and this is ESSENTIAL, block her from all social media and phone calls and go NO CONTACT. None. No texts, email, fb, nothing.

    It is not your job to be miserable in an attempt to make her happy.

  • 7 years ago

    Either she is actually suicidal or she may have a serious psychological condition that causes her to lie about something like that. Either way, you are most likely not able to solve her problems all by yourself. If there is a way that you can get her the medical help she needs, then hopefully you will be able to move on with your own life without any negative consequences.

  • 7 years ago

    Break up with her. Tell her to get some real help like therapy. If y'all's relationship is together because of a threat, it's not a good one.

  • 7 years ago

    This is an emotionally manipulative and abusive relationship.

    You are not responsible for her actions.

    You should break up with her because it's not healthy.

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  • 7 years ago

    I agree with "Hell Bat" and "Jen Wales"..... remember also this --you cannot control another person's behavior....do not allow her dysfunctional behavior control you.

    If she threatens as one of the readers says call her family and call the police.

  • 7 years ago

    Break up with her and see if she does it

  • 7 years ago

    Let her be is my only advice for you

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