To those who have lost loved ones due to senseless murder have you ever thought of this?

I was one time very afraid when an incident happened from some guy back on leave from Vietnam who looked at me and my boyfriend and said "I could kill you". I was not afraid for my life. I was afraid because I know my parents coming home and finding me dead would be the worst thing I felt could ever happen to them. As you remember your loved ones you lost, also remember that their last concerns were most likely not for themselves, but for you. I hope this helps.