girls would it turn you off if a guy said this?

You were in the right. That guy clearly missed the age of feminism. I would no sooner ask a guy to wear a tux saying that I like "real men" than I would accept myself being treated in that way. For me that man wouldn't seem interested in a relationship between equals but a relationship where he controls you and you stay in what he thinks is your place. A true and solid relationship starts with both of you going out together, dressing in your normal style, and just being yourselves rather than expecting you to turn into the person he would like you to be. If he really respected you he would accept the way you are not the way he thinks you should be.

Not really. I like to see women in dresses, nicely dressed and all. But, it should be HER choice. I grew up where women had to wear dresses. It wasn't until I got older, hit puberty, that I was told why. Easier access to the "good parts" of a woman. Sorry, not nice and not, to me, acceptable. I've never met a woman who couldn't do whatever a man could.

I guess that's why I'm single. Be yourself. Wear a dress, pants, or whatever, or nothing, your call. Clothing doesn't alter who you are. I've seen women in stunning dresses, work clothes, and half dressed. I've gotten used to most of it, and don't judge her by her clothing.

Sadly, America has problems, and most Muslim nations have their rules.

Turn off for sure. You shouldn't just like me for how I dress up. You should like me for how confident and happy I feel in my own skin and what I feel comfortable in wearing. THAT IS SEXY. Not ALWAYS having to wear dresses, high heels, have perfect make up on, and act like a total "lady" whatever that even means to be beautiful or feel worthy. I would NOT date a guy who would require that. It does feel nice to get dolled up every once in a while, but all the time is too much. I have days where I want to just rock a white tee, bum around in comfy lounge pants and have no make up on. A big NO.

HE can try wearing heels.

Yes, that is a turn off. He's dumb. Request that he wears a Calvin Klien suit with expensive cologne, brings you the reddest roses available, and pays for dinner.

Yes

Ask for personal opinions and get turned off when you disagree with those opinions.

That's totally valid.

With that attitude he's gonna high-tail it out of town. Plenty of girls who are perfectly comfortable being feminine, who actually like that sort of stuff, and he's gonna figure it out pretty quick.

Yes.. I mean you can't force me to wear what I refuse to. I do it when I want. Not to mention, this is my body.. He needs to loosen up a bit there!

No i'd rather be alone than date someone who tells me what to do.

Nope I wouldn't mind :) and nope, you didn't over react because that's you.

No. You shouldn't be with someone that forces you to do things you aren't willing to do for his own selfish pleasure.