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I'm not romantically interested in anyone. Is that bad? Can I do something about it?
I'm an 18 year old male. Just graduated from high school a few weeks ago. I find it extremely difficult to become interested in someone. I don't understand why. I do consider myself to be gay, but I doubt that makes any difference. I WAS interested in someone before, but he turned out to be straight, and it killed me inside. But I doubt this makes any difference, either. I don't know what it is. I'm interested in sexual activity, but that's about as far as it goes. I haven't been in a relationship in over two years, and it's really getting to me. I've self-harmed over it (I no longer do this, though), I cry, and I just generally am depressed. It seems to get worse as the days go on, because my friends are all pairing off, and they're very happy in their relationships. Happiness is something I haven't been able to describe myself as being for years. I can't say that I've had a relationship that I considered to be "good." I know a lot of it is probably jealousy. I feel like I want to force myself to become interested in someone, but I don't know if I can do that.
What is my problem, and can I really do anything about it?
6 Answers
- Anonymous7 years agoFavorite Answer
You could be aromantic which means you don't feel romantic attraction towards anyone however you still find people attractive, it's totally fine and you should probably do a little research to see if this is how you feel. There's nothing you can really 'do' about it per say but it's totally fine and nothings wrong with you! :)
- Iced ModeLv 57 years ago
When you're depressed you may lose interest in lots of different activities, social interaction, etc, and that includes having a relationship. (Also, you're only 18 and plenty of 18 yr olds aren't really interested in relationships). You said so yourself that you have been depressed and for quite a while, so why not seek help and get a counselor? Just talking can be a huge help and relief. I''m not saying you need an anti-depressant or anything, but try just talking to a therapist. So I think your focus shouldn't be on why aren't you interested in anyone, but how to help your general state of depression. When that's taken care of, that will help you with all areas of your life. Wish you the best.
- Anonymous7 years ago
It's not bad. You just have to find the perfect person.
- 7 years ago
you just haven't met the right one stay busy and don't worry too much about relationships they will happen it usually leads to heart break so don't trip
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