Starting from scratch?

NEVER TRY TO GET A RELATIONSHIP. Meet people. Build your social circle. Date. Date A lot. When you meet a girl you like, spend time talking to her and making friends. If that goes well, DON'T ask her out. Invite her to join you somewhere. Arrange it so that you and her are alone One on One, with out other friends around. It's still a Date, but it's easier for people to accept "invitations" and not have to make a decision to dating someone. The events are exactly the same, but the title "DATE", seems to scare some people. The idea of a date is so that you get to know each other (your personalities). You could both be beautiful people on the outside, but if you can't get along, you're both a waste of time to each other or your relationship (if you force it) will be a lost cause. Meet lots of people. If a girl happens to like you, but you're not sure of her... date her and get to know something about her. It'll still be good practice for you. A Date is NOT a Relationship or Commitment. A Relationship is an introduction to Marriage to see what it would be like to be "Till Death Do You Part" with this mate. It's NOT PERMANENT. There will be LOTS of single and lonely girls ALWAYS. Some feel like you do. Go meet women. Smile. Say "Hi". Compliment them and make them smile. It's ALWAYS easy to meet people when YOU SMILE and MAKE them Smile in your company. You can make as many "Female Friends" as you want. There is nothing wrong with that and you can "invite" any of them, when an interest develops.

The girl's number you have now... Text her something that will make her smile or feel good. Most of the time people respond to good feelings.

go with the flow, dont look desperate, give hints, avoid girls using u