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My boyfriend is getting frustrated because we haven't had sex yet?
My boyfriend and I have ben dating for 2 years, I am 18 and he is 19. I just started birth control, but recently both our lives have been crazy so we haven't had the chance to actually do it yet..
He's getting really frustrated... he's saying things like "Why do I even try anymore" "Sex is fake it's never going to happen" "nothing works in my favor, and we are never going to have sex until we're 20".
He's being really dramatic about it... because even though we are going to be going off to college soon, we will be a couple miles away from each other, and he has his own apartment...
He's also frustrated because I don't really care. I personally have zero sex drive and really could care less when we have sex. He's just annoying the hell out of me because right now is a very busy time and we are having a lot of interferences. What am I suppose to do about him? and is this normal?
I've always had a low libido, but I'm not holding sex from him, I want to do it and I will when we get the time (because there literally is no where to go and I'm currently on my period), but I can wait if needed.
12 Answers
- ?Lv 57 years ago
Its wrong of him to expect sex from you in that fashion. Just because you have been together two years does not entitle him to anything. I say dump him for that reason and move on. He isn't worth your time if he is making a big deal about this.
- ?Lv 67 years ago
If he's already treating you like this, it's only going to get worse. If he truly loved you, he would wait until you're ready - not force you when you aren't. Hold your ground. If you don't, you'll regret it.
- ?Lv 67 years ago
If you're going away to college- just end it. He'll find someone to sleep with. You obviously don't want to
- ?Lv 77 years ago
Well, if you don't want to have sex with him, then dump him. If you aren't sexually attracted to him then you are just wasting your time and his time.
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- ?Lv 47 years ago
Don't allow his frustrations to affect what happens to your body! You aren't married yet so your body is still your own, you owe him nothing! That is the thing about the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing, it is okay to have someone that you are getting to know personally, but it should not extend past a certain amount of time unless you want to get married. What is the point in having a boyfriend if you can calculate in your head when you will break up with him? If you don't want to have sex, you are doing the honorable thing and waiting! Most people and girls would let their boyfriends talk them into doing it, but it takes a woman to say no and mean it. Remember, it also takes a man to understand and be okay with it! If sex determines all these things for him, he is being led by his desires rather than his love and you do not want someone who lusts after you, but someone who loves you first. I would consider ending the relationship before he breaks your heart or worse. Remember you are worth the love you save don't spend it on any little boy find the man who will cherish you and your body forever; your husband. God loves you! God bless!
- Underthesea12Lv 67 years ago
No ring no ding
I understand he wants it because he "loves you" but remind him the comments do not make you want to run & jump in the sack! You want your first time to be special!
I think it's great you have waited!
- 7 years ago
According to the age you should not do it now . If you are willing to , then try with condoms . Any way the chances for doing and not to do is 50-50 . Experiencing it would be great but later you have to deal with it if your boyfriend is not with you .
- Anonymous7 years ago
Dump him if he is annoying you
- Anonymous7 years ago
its odd you are with someone for 2 years and dont want to have sex.
i guess you think he is not the right one for you.
i think its best to break up because you dont even have libido. its unfair to keep him like this and expect him not to cheat.
- AyyyyyLv 77 years ago
Well duh. It's been 2 god damn years. You're making up excuses. Obviously you don't want to have sex with him. Break up with him.