Best Friend Spending More Time With BF Than With Me?

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My best friend of years has a new boyfriend. He's a freshmen and she's a Junior. 
I'm visiting her in Boston for two weeks from California. And mostly she's been talking to him.
I understand she's in a relationship but I spend over $500 to come here. Im only here fr another week.
So far he's been coming along for everything; the movies, down time, Water Wizz, everything! This is supposed to be me and her time.
I don't mind when he comes over occastionally, they don't get to see each other THAT much, but I haven't seen her in a few years.
He's nice I guess but he always wants to kiss and makeout and stuff...and I;m always left out ad the third wheel...
I don't want him coming to Water Wizz because  her other friends will be coming and I hardly know or remember any of them since when I lived her (over 8 years ago).
Im gonna be the odd man out and if he comes, ill basically just want to leave...
Riht now and Ive never said this before, but I kinda wanna go back to California....because I feel so loeft out! Her relationship is new so I don't want her not to spend time with him but I also didn't come all the way across the US to sit in the corner while they make out or inside jokes or whatever...:( I love her so much and want to enjoy my time with her...all weve really been doing is sitting on the computer while she skypes him ..:(

Should I tell her?  I don't know when im ever gona visit again and we could split up by that time! And Im scared for that!

Advice guys?

Thanks..

apndi · Accepted Answer

Spending over $500 to travel from California to Boston, only to have her talk to her boyfriend the whole time? That's bull. You don't get to see her a lot. Tell her you're feeling left out, and that you didn't travel across the country to visit her boyfriend. You came to visit her. Definitely tell her that, or else you'll be miserable for the rest of the visit.

Enzo Five · Answer

Tell her to stop being his ***** and to hang out with you for a while and if she won't then leave her don't talk to her then when she gets dump by him and to go back to you  some of my  friends do this but **** em then they will get bores and go talk back to you I've had gf. But never done it over like other people do tell her to listen to you then when you have to leave then they can go back.

Xitlali · Answer

ok so just talk to her be like hey whats going on ?? you guys should talk nad tell her how youve been feeling ,, dont be afraid to ask her !!!! SISTERS BEFORE MISTERS !!! haha

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