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I feel like im a bad girlfriend?
We've been dating for a month but we have been on/off this whole year. Whenever we break up it's usually him that does it but sometimes me. Whenever I do it he's usually like okay.. But when I went to break up with him last week he was all mad and he spent the whole day telling me how he loves me and everything. We ended up not breaking up.. Because I can honestly say I love him.
But just everything he does just gets me mad lately.. For example if I say I'm not in the best mood right now(I never take it out on him) he's just like "text me when your in a better mood, bye"
There's a lot of other stuff like that but I just get mad a lot & i always end up in a worse mood or crying but we love each other. Idk of we should break up? I feel like a bad girlfriend..
5 Answers
- 7 years agoFavorite Answer
Its possible that he is scared of antagonizing you further when you said you not in a good mood. After all you guys have a history of break up. So his reaction isn't to surprising. Honestly you need to stop making insinuations and expectations. You want him to care for you in certain manner have and honest calm and respectful talk. Maybe you will learn that he also might be annoyed by your behavior. He can't read your mind. If you want him to be sweet to you when your upset tell him so this will start at least some level of communication. Because his reasons might be really surprise you.
- 7 years ago
It just sounds like he really does love you, but he just doesn't know what he's doing wrong. How many girls has he been with before you? It sounds like he needs you to point out the little things he does wrong. And trust me, if he really loves you, he'll put in an effort into fixing that. I don't see why you think you're a bad girlfriend. He just needs a little guidance. The abrupt text you showed as an example sounds like he's misinterpreting your first text. Be a little more straightforward with him and things should work out. Good luck! :)
- DLv 77 years ago
You guys aren't in love. You guys really need to break up for good, this sounds like a toxic (and somewhat childish) relationship
- 7 years ago
If you truly love him youd treat him like you love him, somewhere in this tells me you might have second thoughs on the relationship and that you might just love him as a friend, listen to your heart...its the best idea.
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