Would you stay with a abuser?

It's really hard to get out and sometimes it seems like it would just be easier to stay than it would to leave. In the short term that is completely true, but long term it's so worth it. It SUCKS. The abuse will only escalate. If you leave there are people to help you. I'd start gathering evidence of the abuse. If he hits you take pictures and if he writes down/texts you anything threatening keep it. It might not be enough to get him into prison, but it'll be enough to get a restraining order. There are also crisis centers in most towns/cities. Go and talk to them they can arrange a shelter if you need it. Good luck :D

It depends what the situation was and what type of abuse. Say physically or sexually? No. I think no matter what your partner should never lay a finger on you, doesn't matter if it's a women or man, but if it was verbal I think maybe a chance or a warning

I guess depends on the type. sometimes emotional can be worked through. Physical then most certainly not. That's your life you are dicing with. Leaving even though hard you need to. Lots of programs that can help as well

Here's a secret: Whoever loves the least has power over the relationship.

NO. No matter what the reason, no matter whether it's 'love' or not. No matter whether he or her will change, NO. Flat out no.

They hit you once, who says they'll won't repeat? Them? How can you trust them? They hit you didn't they? Based on their prior behavior? Really? What made them change?

IT IS NEVER YOUR FAULT.

No matter what you did, abuse is NEVER the answer.

No. The first episode of abuse would land him in jail and end our relationship forever.

No because why would anyone want to or deserve to be another's punching bag?

Never. Why would I choose to be unhappy?

NO.