Would feminism had been better if women would had??

That's what feminism tries to do. And in fact governments are often on board with that. It's the average man in the street that can't seem to get the hang of talking to women as though we were actually people.

They did, actually. That's a thing that happened. The crazies just don't want to admit that men are capable of being decent human beings in the same way women are.

Feminist campaigns have been ongoing over 100 years and many suffragettes and suffragists put tremendous efforts into trying to make what you just said, happen. Men were not as willing to relinquish power, funny enough, and waves of feminism (such as the 1970 equal pay act) have since then, brought women more freedom.

We could do that now too - but I don't see any men inviting this - I just see men vilifying women and putting them down - arrogantly proclaiming like some here saying they know what feminists think better than the feminists themselves. Could the problem be some men's sexist attitude?

Mainstream Feminists, most of them, have no interest whatsoever in fairness toward men and boys. Quite the opposite.

of course not its still called feminism

who do u think will be sitting in those seats majority of the time? women

Um, they tried that already still continue to try it today and yet no one is listening so obviously this does not work....

Aren't they doing that?