Why do boys choose looks over personality?

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I'm just really confused right now. The reason im asking this is because recently this boy asked me to come chill with him. When I seen who it was you would have thought my jaw broke because of the face I made. I couldn't believe another asshole from my past had the balls to try to talk to me. When I was younger I must admit I was the ugly duckling. Boys called me every hurtful name in the book, every chance they got to call me ugly they took it but nowadays I look 100 times better I guess I was just a late bloomer. Here's the problem the same boys who made me cry over my looks that i couldn't change are the same ones who " inbox me on Facebook, ask me to come chill, or give me there numbers!!". I can't help but get angry when I tell them a couple of years ago you used to call me names and what really pisses me off is they say they don't remember doing those things. I'm the same person so why like me now????

Yosemite · Answer

Looks is the first thing someone notices about you. Whether you like it or not. That is called "First impression". That usually determines if someone talks to you or not.. Or whatever. You got to be attracted to a persons looks and Personality. That's why some relationships work and some don't. Plain & simple.  If you see a real muscular big guy w. A shaved head and tattoos on his face. Would you want to talk to him? No. So My point is made. Sorry that people don't see your personality first before your looks. That probably didn't answer your question.

Lisa · Answer

Well, first of all, I had the same thing pretty much happen to me. But I look at it this way...it's not just about me looking good. Please, I don't look that much different. I think these guys maybe grew up a little bit and now see something different when they look at you. They realize you're a girl worth getting to know instead of calling you names just because their friend is doing it, who is doing it because HIS friend is doing it. Most people are not bad people. They make mistakes. High school isn't forever. People DO grow up and they do mature. It's your decision whether or not you want to give any of these guys a chance. But try not to judge them based on who they were yesterday, because they're not doing that to you.

Anonymous · Answer

Not all guys are the same. Everybody seems to think that but there are some that actually look at personality over looks.

Anonymous · Answer

I am a male. To tell you the truth, i think all males are dogs, whether we admit it or not. I certainly do not like admitting i am a dog, but honestly I am a dog like every other male.

H · Answer

Same reason girls choose looks over personality.

Anonymous · Answer

girls do teh exact same they go up to someoen tehy think is attractive that doesnt need to be looks

Patrick · Answer

only the immature ones do that, not all guys are the same

Anonymous · Answer

I dont i love a girls personality :) you sound really nice! 
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Why do boys choose looks over personality?

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