Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

i need parents options about kids and sports?

When my son was 5 I sign him up to tball and mid way he wanted to quit but I told him needs to finish wat he start and then he said he wants to do flag football when he was 6 years old he loved it the coach told me he has talent that he has hand to catch and alot of speed, so I sign him up to flag football at 7 years old and I told him to be the best you need to work hard but he told me couple time I shouldnt wrry he has the talent, so the coach loved my som he is 4 , 10 he can be most 12 years in a race n he can catch but every time his mom would take him to the practice he would slack and do watever, so then he went on vacation for week he missed four days of practice and the game, he started cry to his mom told her he dont want to do it no more n etc.

Me and his mom got in a argument about quitting stuff and she was like if he wants to quit in the middle of it he can its just a sport and I believe thats wrong cuz that showing that if you start something its ok to quit

AM I right ????

5 Answers

Relevance
  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    I can't help but noticing you say YOU signed him up for these sports. Were they sports he asked to play? Was he given a choice or even a say? Because if not, your son isn't quitting something HE started, but something YOU started.

    It's a bit unfair to sign a child up for something without asking him, and then to turn around and use the argument 'finish what you started' when he doesn't like it.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Been there done that :) We told our son he had to finish out the season, and was free to choose a different sport next time around. I felt it was a lesson in not quitting. Plus, whether or not he *loved* the activity, he learned new skills.

  • 7 years ago

    Well i see that its good for him not to quit just dont pressure him into it , if he doesnt want to

    And if you do want him to be in a sport let him ecpirience other sports

  • 7 years ago

    I actually have no idea what you've just said.

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    let your kid persue whatever he is interested in, or else he will grow to resent you, if you love something let it go!

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.