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what do you think about a guy that will text but not get together?

He will text me in the morning or afternoon sometimes and say hello or ask how my day is going, but doesnt carry on a convo. Then he will always text me gnight with X's and O's, but most of the time will just say gnight and again not try to carry on a convo. Our texting use to be more frequent throughout the whole day and night and he would call me sweet little names and tell me how he wanted to cuddle with me. We did get together once many months ago, we've kissed but we have not had sex, which I am okay with. But I dont understand how he will just text mornin and night with X's and O's but never really find time for me. What do you think? Do you think he is just trying to fade out but doesnt want to hurt me? Or circumstance are preventing him from going any further? Thank you for your help.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    I've been in that situation. A guy would always text but don't want to meet up. When it's always time for us to meet each other in person he always make up some excuse. I then told him we either meet or don't contact me by texting anymore. Texting does nothing for me, i rather see the person face to face, i got to see who it is that i'm talking to. We finally had met up, after a few months we are in a relationship.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Don't worry about this boy. He obviously isn't the one for you. You want a boy who's always glad to talk to you and always wants to be around you. Some one who respects your feelings. This boy is not doing that, hence, you should not worry about it and wait for a different boy to come around. One that will treat you right and not as a gal on the side.

  • 7 years ago

    Obviously doesn't like you too much if seeing you isn't a priority. Texting means nothing.

    Stop answering him, he knows he has you wrapped. Find someone you can actually spend time with face to face.

  • That he is married or has a girlfriend.

    You've met one time. You're not dating this guy, you're a pen pal.

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  • 7 years ago

    he has another woman, learn to see the signs of a player.

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